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So these aren’t all our msgs back to back, the first two were from maybe the 1st week & the last 2 were from our last week of speaking. I’m purple & he’s grey, while he wrote a bit more I feel like I kept engaged by asking questions. He seemed fine at first, all I said was dnd wasn’t my style, he seemed kind of nice I was surprised he just ghosted out of the blue 2 days after my last message. These are just a snippet but you have an idea of the banter, I don’t think I did anything wrong, you all agree?

https://imgur.com/a/v7eymwl

Just a disclaimer... you don't HAVE to clarify what's wrong with it, you can just vote "no" on the poll regardless, though I would prefer if you clarified. Thank you.

But anyways, okay, so I was just browsing men's fashion online, and for some reason the outfit in the attached picture just spoke to me on a spiritual level. I just found it SOOOOO cute for some reason. Usually most men's outfits either look too basic or like they're trying too hard in my opinion, but I like how the above picture is a pretty simple outfit yet looks very put together and unique at the same time.

Like it's basically just a dark gray shirt with light gray shorts, but the specific way it's styled just makes all the difference to me.

It also helps that the model himself is a total hottie who is in very good physical shape and has glowing tanned skin, but I feel this would be an excellent look for basically any man.

When I geeked out about this men's outfit to my friends, I more or less had mixed responses... about half absolutely loved it as much as me, and half felt completely indifferent to it and "had no idea what I saw as so special about this outfit."

And so I'm curious what you guys think about it. Is it a really good outfit like I'm thinking, or am I just being weird and/or delusional about this? Lol.

I'm a 23F, about to be 24, still in college. Though I've been asked out before, not by the right guys, I'd never had a first date. I never had a boyfriend. I have a specific type/look in men that I'm attracted to. But the guys I would seem interested in are either not interested in me or they are not aware of my interest in them. I'm quite quirky in appearance, personality. But I'm very smart, curious, open minded and observant (If you're curious as to why I look like, you can go to this link If I'm pretty like people tell me, how come guys don't ask me out?

I'm also usually forward when speaking with others. After a guy who I fell for didn't return his feelings, I shut out and stopped approaching guys and showing interest, in fear of rejection and just encountering the obvious. It took me months to get over him.

A lot of people in my age bracket are already in relationships, engaged or married. And it seems like they're all pretty much the same in personality, style, common interests and friends. I feel like the odd one out without any experience or proposals. I was raised in the Midwest, but I currently live in the deep south. So that might explain a lot. This not only feels odd to me, but like it's too soon for everyone to be married this young. I want to be in a relationship, but I feel like I'm too weird or quirky for men to handle or to be attracted to. Like I just turn them off right from the start of the conversation or minutes into. So I just keep quiet and too myself, unless someone interesting enough catches my eye. I don't like to waste my time with people who aren't gonna make time for me, benefit me or who I see as fake and toxic. Pretty valid, is it not? I know what I want and what I'm looking for, but I'm open for something different to me.

Could anyone give me any ideas as to why? And if you are or have been through what I'm going through, please give your story. Thank you!