Hmm that's a tough one. Long distance relationships can definitely work, but there's a lot that can go wrong too, especially if you guys just started talking. A few things I'd think about:
- The lovebombing stuff is kinda weird if you just met. Starting off intense like that always makes me cautious.
- Seven hour time difference sucks. You guys won't be able to see each other much with that kind of gap.
- He's in the army too which means he'll probably be busy a lot and not around a ton. That distance and little communication could cause issues.
- Coming to America to see you in a few months is cool, but is that just a visit? Or will he actually move here after? Big difference there.
- I'd be wary of trusting too much this early too. Trust takes time to build, even with online relationships.
Personally if it was me, I'd keep things casual for now. Keep talking but don't get too invested yet until you can meet in person and get to know each other better. Don't get your hopes up too high in case it doesn't work out. Take your time building trust instead of rushing things. But if you really connect then maybe it's worth a shot! Just be careful of red flags and don't ignore your gut feeling. Hope this helps, let me know if you need any other advice!
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