How to be a cool guy?

[SussyBaka]

See I am a smart guy but i dont have friends, and people see me as a good guy because i often help people (well not a nice guy to girls only rather i help people in general) And i sometimes feel i do it because of the loneliness i felt in my bad days, or maybe because i am a lonely, to be honest it can any thing.

I basically move around in college with a cold face with ear phones on with phonk music. I look cool and all but the thing is i need to date and my persona is not like girls would see me as that guy.

While i said i keep a cold face but when people approach me, i can't stop to smile and laugh a lot at their jokes, which makes me a personality with whom anyone can communicate but i feel i am not very open up to anyone.

Also i feel i am bit less confident because i dont have a lot of money to spend with friends so i keep mostly myself out of those situations, and i feel its one of the major reason which holds me back.

I am currently in my 4th year and 7th semester has almost ending in few days. I already got placed with the good package now. I am trying to earn extra cash so that i can make date someone.

But i really need to know what ways could be a bit cool and open up.
Also i have this question always in mind that being a guy i must have a serious personality which i have but i also feel like communicating and when i see those guys who are the centre of attention in groups bcz of their communication style or maybe bcz of looks i wish to be like them too.

Can you guys please give me some guidance about what are the things i could change and most importantly how to change it?

for starters i was thinking to join some sports like badminton next semester so that i would meet new people there. what you guys think?

[bededazzle]

doing sports sounds like a great idea. some people do have a magnetism. i personally think it is difficult to sort of manufacture this but it’s good to see traits you like in others and want to grow. well, i am not really much of a cool guy myself, but i think authenticity goes a long way. you have to discover who you are, and strive to be the best version of yourself. it won’t guarantee popularity necessarily, but it may help you connect with people and feel great about being yourself. i like that you aren’t beating yourself up. you are opening yourself to change. i think of you continue down this path and try any new things you will achieve success.