Search Results: getting stood up

There is an attractive younger woman I meet at my local CrossFit gym a few months ago. After getting into a several friendly conversations with her I one day asked her to get breakfast.

She smiled at me and said “thank you but I have a bf”. I responded that I respected that and I wouldn’t ask again (while smiling). I believed her at the time and appreciated her handling it the best way possible. She was polite but direct. I didn’t pick up on any negative body language.

Since then I’ve ran into her several other times in class (including a small class with just her, me and the instructor). I act courteous. I’ll give a quick hello and goodbye after class. I even occasionally help her rack heavy weights and move machines (I help other people w/ this too sometimes).

However I don’t start conversations with her anymore. I don’t want her thinking I’m okay with a friendzone or stroke her ego too much by giving her additional attention. However I do act polite to her because she was respectful by how she rejected me

But she’s the chatty type and I’ve overheard her get into long conversations about what she is doing in grad school, her vacations with her friends and her weekend plans with other people. Not once has she ever mentioned her boyfriend. Never. I am starting to wonder she gave me a well intentioned lie.

That doesn’t mean I’ll keep trying if she’s single. She’s obviously not interested in me that way and that’s okay. We both know where each other stands.

But I just wonder why she lied to me about having a boyfriend.

Let's see how good the people of GAG are. Here's a list of simple questions any morally decent person can do. How many of them do you pass?

1. Do you try to be a good person daily and help others in any small way you can?

2. Do you usually treat others, especially strangers, with respect (until they give you a reason not to)?

3. Do you try to understand other people's point of view at times, especially when you disagree with them? (Empathy)

4. Are you the type to stand up for essential freedom and speak out against evil, tyranny, and oppression of others, regardless which side of politics it comes from?

5. Do you positively contribute to society in any meaningful way? (Teacher, doctor, lawyer, nurse, assistant, donor to charity, etc.)

6. Are you a person with a clean lifestyle? (No smoking, vaping, drug abuse including marijuana, alcohol, gambling, etc.)

7. Are you a sexually clean person? (No promiscuity, no sleeping around, no STD's, no degeneracy like an al sex, rim jobs, etc)

8. Are you a decent partner or potential partner to others? (No hitting, no abuse, no insulting)

9. Are you monogamous and loyal to your partner or would-be partner? (No cheating, no disrespect)

10. Are you against the death or killing of others? (Whether that be by "Constitutionally-protected" firearms or pre-childbirth; I'm not getting into the political argument crap)

Note: Being religious or heterosexual/non-queer is not required to be a good person, but it may sometimes help, depending on the circumstance.

Let's just arbitrarily say, you need 7 or 8 of these to pass as a good, decent human being.
So... ARE YOU A GOOD PERSON OR NOT? (I'm option B, for what it's worth.)

And yes, I left anonymous opinions on, even though I know that's how all the trolls and jerks on GAG only ever respond. I guess I'm opening it for the good people, even if some cockroaches also slip in through the door.