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I know of at least 4x within the last 6 weeks that he went golfing or out to drinks and told me it was a guy or two when in reality it was them and 2 female coworkers and sometimes it was just him and the girl or girls. One of the times was my birthday dinner and the reservation was at 4:45pm. He told me he was going golfing with a guy coworker. I ended up having to run home to take his dog to the vet because he was reacting poorly to a recent surgery around 10:30am. Around 1pm he texted and asked if I minded if he grabbed lunch as he hadn’t eaten all day. I told him it was fine but the dinner. He showed up at 4pm noticeably tipsy. I found out that day he had gone golfing with one of the guy and 2 girl coworkers, and then continued to hang out with them drinking after while I was home carrying for his dog and getting ready for dinner. One of the other times he started around 3pm happy hour and I had met with a girlfriend to catch up that night and I was just up the street from our house, he got home around 8:40pm and started getting really upset I wasn’t home yet and what was I doing (mind you I met my friend around 6pm and had dinner). Come to find out he spent the day with the girls drinking. It’s the lying about who is with him, why lie, especially if I shouldn’t be concerned? He is always so skeptical of any male coworker of mine? He got upset with my team of 4 (all guys but me) did a golf team outing. Yet he’s secretly golfing and getting drunk with female coworkers? Is this a normal reaction?

I know very few msgs were sent but I don’t think I said anything wrong. We’re strangers but he went from replying right away to not responding after a day. I feel like I’ve matched with him before and we’ve spoken but not for long, trying to remember who stopped talking first. I’m usually one to remember and that’s why I normally wouldn’t match again but it’s blurry with this person. I’m purple and he’s grey

He had mentioned his type is big boobs after I made a joke when he asked me to send him photos of mines again. He said mines are amazing and was buzzing when he saw I actually had boobs because he thought I was all bum. I have a big bum and small boobs. He even said he’s becoming a bum guy from me.

He’s told people he’s obsessed with me before even seeing my boob size etc.

We’ve had sex a few times and it’s been good he does finish very quickly but we’re getting there

But he’s so off sometimes with me. He is busy but it just seems he doesn’t want to put time in to it but then says he really likes me and he’s super keen and goes on about how much he fancies me and likes me. For example he canclled on sat and then the next week said he could only see me one day and I said why not these days and he said i suppose I could. But only offered to see me one day the following week. It’s only been 3 weeks. The first week he came over twice and it was late and he has work super early. Then ended up cancelling sat which wasn’t his fault why he did. But to only offere me one day the following week seems weird to me. So I just said let’s leave this I don’t want to take it further for him to say no please let me come on that day and we will talk etc. I ended up cancelling on him because I’m exhausted and he wants to see me on Sunday now.

I do think I’m maybe. Overthinking the how he is with me

But can this even work if I’m not his type? Is this why I get this feeling?

I know how much of a guy like big boobs he wants that and only that just like if a guy likes big bum he does. I’ve a big bum so everyone I’ve been with was obsessed over it