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Search Results: good time to pursue him
Guys, Even if a guy starts talking to someone new soon after a breakup that doesn’t necessarily mean he is just using a girl as a rebound, right?
Breakups are hard. I get that. Sometimes you just want someone to talk to to help you get over a hard breakup. I knew someone who started talking to me soon after someone broke up with him. He was hurt no doubt about...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would a man willingly wait for a woman?
Here is some context. I met this guy a few months ago. I went on one date with him, but I didn’t pursue him because I saw some red flags I didn’t like. For example, he goes out drinking a lot, and he posts a lot of girls...
PiinkFalls
Xper 4 Age: 26 Did you become emotionally attached to the person who took your virginity?
Unfortunately this applies to me I lost my virginity at age 26 and I've never had a relationship at all he was my very first boyfriend and my first relationship but even though things ended on bad terms and I was...
Cherrylicious
Yoda Age: 35 Are you actively or passively looking for a relationship/ Dating?
Actively : you’re putting yourself out there on online dating or just talking to people and pursuing a relationship Passively : you are looking but not really looking. If someone comes along you don’t turn them down....
Justneedtokno
Guru Age: 31 I want to be exclusive she doesn't, should I end things?
So I've been seeing this girl for about a month, we've been on 9 dates. She really likes me but she's still indecisive about things. She said there's a lot of things she likes about me, but one thing really bugs her,...
Itsharryhustler
Xper 2 Age: 30 Does favouring looks over intelligence, for girls especially, lead to economic collapse?
Don't get me wrong - good looks are awesome. But, without the other person being someone equally intelligent or smarter the relationship very quickly starts to feel frustrating and empty. Back in the 1980s being...
ThatNoUVAtYourEyes
Xper 5 Age: 48 Girl emotionally attached to her ex? Do it keep it moving?
So I’ve been dating this girl for over a month and things have been going very well. We have good chemistry and it’s steady. I let her know my intentions from the beginning and she was on board. It was to date while...
IRush
Xper 3 Age: 31 How to deal with a single mother as a man
There's a right way and a wrong way to deal with single mothers. First one should reflect on their own life decisions before trashing someone else for a mistake or a miscalculation. Sure there are single mothers out there...
t-8900
Yoda Age: 36 Why does the "cougar" stereotype of older women who date younger men persist so strongly when almost none of it is true?
As a woman engaged to a significantly younger man (I'm 42, he's 26) I get super annoyed whenever someone calls me a 'cougar'. The term 'cougar' implies a lot of stereotypes I've found to be mostly (or almost entirely)...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Letting go of women and relationships forever; they're a false dream
MyTake #49 I asked women on here a poll about height at the request of a friend on here, as she wanted me to see how accepting women are about height. The poll results were not good. Not enough women were accepting of the...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 Why having unattainable standards does not work - bible talk
I’m lucky that basically all my friends are honest people who will tell me the truth even when I do not like it, they all told me I was reaching too high and needed to set realistic goals, I realize now what my problem...
If a guy won’t accept that I don’t want to date him, should I ghost him?
I’ve really tried to avoid ghosting because it’s not nice so multiple times I’ve gave him multiple reasons I don’t want to be with him. I’ve been on a couple of dates with him and we’ve been speaking for 2 months but long...
Anonymous
(30-35) Facts about relationships I wish I knew when I was younger.
Intro: After 20 years of misstakes, I finally got the essential Red Pill epiphany to actually understand how relationships works between men and women. It's complex, and when I see all the questions here at GAG, they are...
Robin83
Xper 4 Age: 43 Alfred Adler [Humanistic] Theory: We All Have One Basic Desire and Goal: To Belong and Feel Significant
So I stumbled across a reference to Alfred Adler today. I decided to do some research. I think I like this fellow. He's my kind of guy. He's a humanist. I think I'm a humanist. Not in any sort of formal or organized way...
![Alfred Adler [Humanistic] Theory: We All Have One Basic Desire and Goal: To Belong and Feel Significant](https://cf.girlsaskguys.com/a66423/thumb-672-378.jpg "Alfred Adler [Humanistic] Theory: We All Have One Basic Desire and Goal: To Belong and Feel Significant")
What was she thinking? Am I wrong in any way?
A few months ago, a friend reached out to me to see how I was doing since she hadn’t seen me at church or on social media. I told her I was doing good and talked with her for a while. Then I found out through a mutual...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can you tell if a woman is dating to get free food?
Here's the long version of the story if interested: So, I had a date. On the first date we meet up at the restaurant and she mentioned "She brought an appetite". No problem, I'm into health and fitness, but I eat as...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do I have a chance with him?
So, I (f18) have a crush on my mum’s colleague who’s about 25 years old. I’ve known him for about 5 years, during which time we’ve very briefly interacted. It wasn’t until recently that I got to spend more time around him...
Anonymous
(18-24) The Injustice of Beauty: A Warning About the Hazardous Chemicals in the Health & Personal Care Products You Use Everyday
A Little About My History So, like many people, I have allergies. I may have had them all my life, but it wasn't until I really pursued getting medical treatment, that I eventually discovered that many of my 'colds' I had...
I met this woman a few months back now I feel I was left to dry?
Hello all, I met this woman a few months back. She approached me at a bar and we hit it off we talked for a while and at the end she gave me her number. We hit it off great, talked everyday all day. This woman has...
Brokenheart14
Xper 4 Age: 31 I [25F] am not sure if I should pursue my coworker/best friend [26M]?
For context, we both befriended each other almost instantly almost three years ago when I moved into the office next to his in a small building to the point people thought we were a couple. I had a crush on him a year in....
Important_Scarcity62
Xper 2 Age: 30 