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I am 28. I am a mechanic, 60k a year but long hours. I’ve always been single. I’ve tried dating apps and meeting girls in person but I’m never successful. I tried tinder and in a couple days I got no likes whereas I’ve a friend who got 30 likes in a day.
I am not bad looking, regular joe I think and healthy weight. Although I am 5’9 which places me at further disadvantage.

My experience with dating is that if you wish to find a pretty and nice girl, you need to be really good looking. You gotta be really special and I don’t think that can ever be me.

I feel I deserve better than 0 matches and my pride makes me hate women and give up completely. If I am that disliked then I guess I’m an incel. If I do receive a match it’s typically a girl I find very unattractive ☹️

Do I deserve no women swiping me and being rejected and ignored? I can’t see myself ever having a girlfriend. I have to find something that can entertain me more than any girl can.

Okay so this happened to me years ago.

I was getting ready and set for prom or homecoming whatever; I was in an online school at the time I was going to, and this happened in like the early of 2020, right before the COVID struck. You’re one of the prom committees to take part in planning for the prom, so you’ll be wanting to take a date with a girl from your school, right? But then my mother knows of this, and she’s a narcissistic parent. She says and wants for your sister, who is a brainwashed, manipulated version of her, to take her as your prom date, and you denied that because, knowing the sister, all she’ll do is report back to the mom and say what happened with you out of prom while she spies and watches your move. What my sister would do is she’ll watch me from afar when I meet with my former best friend I had at the time who was anointed to be one of the prom committees also or whatever and talk to girls. The sister will feel to come over to intervene in it, saying hi, hello, I’m his sister, or you go to walk with your friend out to the hall or something, go to the bathroom together just chatting and having fun whatever during the night, but then she’ll pull you wise and say you shouldn’t be talking to girls like that; they are worldly. The religion is JW’s (Jehovah Witness), and the way the sister and mom think is that those who aren’t part of their religion are labeled to them as bad people, but that person doesn’t think of people that way because not everybody in the world is bad and there’s genuine good people out there, you’d just need to get to know people to know their character and respect them as we all are humans and should never be treated differently no matter our religion. But they are critical and judgmental of people even if they show they are good with pure intentions but still find something criticized or call them worldly.

So tell me y’all answers or opinions on this?