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If you were me would you walk away from the friendship with an ex, or settle for friends?

okay so last year in spring of 2021 my ex boyfriend dumped me to be in a relationship with a girl he thought was better for him. I loved him (still do) so that crushed me I was depressed for months. So anyway he came back...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a guy says he’s not “looking for anything serious, then what is he looking for?

So I started talking to this guy on a dating app. On it, it says he’s not looking for anything serious/not looking for a relationship. I initially thought he was looking for a hookup but he never initiated anything. Never...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my ex get mad about hooking up if he initiates it?

Okay so long story short me and my ex broke up (it was his decision) and he is currently in a new relationship. I’m still single but still in love with him. Okay so fast forward we starting talking again 9 months after...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What's the best place to find potential girlfriend in your 20s?

I've read the internet here what I got School-I've past that stage of my life. Online Dating-if you're not extremely good looking you will rarely get matches. Even if you're lucky enough to get a date it's very...

username998

Xper 4 Age: 27

Why do women who engage in the hookup culture complain about men only wanting sex?

this is basically a part 2 to my last most recent question. in that question I was talking about women in general and in this one I am talking abou t women who engage in the hookup culture. so it seems like women who...

CasaNorba

Guru Age: 39

Would you date someone later in life who friendzoned you/used you for hookups?

For example, Chad from highschool, 6'2", athletic dude that was smart and good in sports. He uses you for sex and strings along relationship until he is bored of you and moves on. Chad hits you up 10 years later on social...

Anonymous

(36-45)

For example, Chad from highschool, 6'2", athletic dude that was smart and good in sports. He uses you for sex and strings along relationship until he is bored of you and moves on. Chad

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Is it true that many men these days only want hookups and short term relationships?

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Are dating apps a good way to finding a long term relationship?

People have told me they are, most have said it’s geared towards hookups. 27F, it’s normally assumed that women have it easier but I’m not one of those women. I have to use apps because guys never approach me in person,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

People have told me they are, most have said it’s geared towards hookups. 27F, it’s normally assumed that women have it easier but I’m not one of those women. I have to use apps

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Should I try being friends with benefits with my guy friend?

When I was younger I never used to consider being friends with benefits cause I feel like it’s too middle school-ish. Like y’all are either dating or y’all not. But as I got older looking for relationships, it’s like...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it wrong to ask my husband to delete his ex hookup off Snapchat?

So, some backstory.. my husband & I are newly married, just had a baby & everything’s been good. Until I started getting uncomfortable with this girl who he had once dated without the title for awhile & has had sex with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Hooking back up with a hookup?

I’m newly returned to the single life~ and I’m really missing the connection I had with one of my old hookups who I seeing before my last boyfriend. We ended things amicably when I got into my relationship. Guys would...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does this make me seem jealous or nah?

One guy friend that I had a crush on, he just got in a relationship. he started dating this girl days after me and him hooked up and he knew i was i to him. Me and him don’t talk for a little while and then I message him...

Iovemyopnions

Xper 4 Age: 24

(19F) Why do people ask me if I have a boyfriend or seeing someone all that time?

I think I'm a very interesting person but It feels as though I'm just not valid or taken seriously by other people if I'm not sleeping around or dating. All of the people that say this crap are usually in relationships....

okayk

Xper 6 Age: 23

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Iovemyopnions

Xper 4 Age: 24

5 Great Ways to Know A Woman Has Good Values and is Special for A Relationship

It's a long Take, guys. Sorry! I've been trying to keep them short like my last few but had a lot of details here I really want to share. These 5 great ways are not going to be your usual cookie-cutter concepts, rather...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Why does ex-hook-up text me happy new years?

Some background, I've had this guy as a casual hook-up for almost 5 years. At the start he fell in love but I told him I didn't do relationships as we were in very different fases of our lives, and I couldn't give him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does it seem like people are blaming some people for being single?

I feel like there's a new rant or hate going on where people look down on you like its your fault if you're single and can't find someone and blah blah blah but i took a year to focus on me since my last toxic...

Mary087

Xper 6 Age: 27

How many men really feel this way?

My husband and I have been together since I was 19 and he was 22. Before we met I had a few boyfriends before him and he had a few girlfriends before me. I always thought we had a similar perception of our dating history....

Oldernow

Xper 3 Age: 47