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Search Results: if you text the guy first all the time
Is he interested or not?
I really liked this guy and he seemed interested in me. He said we should go to dinner sometime over social media but I never heard anything after that. Ok here’s where I’m mortified! I actually saw him one day and was...
Anonymous
(30-35) He’s on the other side of the world, does he still like me?
I met a guy three weeks ago and we had an instant connection. He lives in a different country, but only one hour away. Things moved pretty fast and we had quite a passionate night together before he flew home. I didn’t...
Anonymous
(30-35) Very confused! He says he doesn't want a relationship but seems to be acting more interested as time passes?
Currently seeing a 42 year old man for 5 months. Two weeks prior to meeting him he had broken up with his live-in girlfriend of 1 year. Month 3 I asked if he wanted to be in a relationship (since we were actively going on...
AlohaKitten
Xper 1 Age: 29 Guys, He said, “men will go great lengths for good sex. How do I know when a man truly loves me vs playing me until he gets what he wants?
My concern is always manipulative behavior and/or to be objectified. He will do such wonderful things like play with my hair and buy me chocolate when I’m on my period; or sometimes asks me to do something other than sex...
Turia
Xper 1 Age: 32 Am I complicating things or is he trying insinuate something?
Hi! I am new here. I (19F) was dating a guy (19M) for 1.5 years. We broke up early 2021 and I am pretty sure he has moved on and so have I. We've always been on good terms really, we have no specific animosity against one...
Anonymous
(18-24) Rather shy & unexperienced guy, what am I supposed to do?
Hey. I met this guy at university some time ago and can't just forget about him. At first I thought he didn't like me that much, but somehow we sit together during almost every lecture. Even when there's seats available,...
joline1997
Xper 2 Age: 29 A guy friend M35 is being odd after we met?
Hello, I am a female 29yo and have a pen pal who lives in a different country which I often visit (my family and friends are there). We met 3 times in the course of 6 months. I told him I fancied him aftet the first time...
Anonymous
(30-35) Maybe a stupid question, but… is it weird to send and receive night messages from an ex every single night?
Well, my (ex) boyfriend decided he wanted to end our one year relationship a little over a month ago, still we agreed to continue as best friends, which I’m extremely thankful for! Ever since the breakup, we’ve been...
Banankaka04
Xper 1 Age: 21 Girls, Just wanted to start out as friends, but he still asks this? What are your opinions? Ever experienced this with a guy friend?
So this guy and I met through mutual friends at college, and we've been texting each other since last week after meeting in person. He asked me if I wanted to hang out, and I told him yes. Even though I could tell he was...
Anonymous
(25-29) How does these kind of guys works, and do they ever come back?
There is a guy I've been talking with for 6 months we decided to meet up the first day was good but second day we werw in a party and he was drunk and kisses a girl infront of me. And third day he was beginning me to...
losthopelessgirl
Xper 1 Age: 22 Help!! Does he like me?
I have a huge crush on this guy right now and I need to know if there's a chance he likes me back or if I'm crazy. Originally he added me on snap a few months ago looking for a different girl. We snapped a little bit, but...
Anonymous
(18-24) Guys why would you text a girl everyday long distance without meeting her?
Guy (38) and I (30) met virtually at work, he lives in Singapore and I in the UK. Worked on the same project, got talking on work chat (he initiated), and since I rolled off the project we moved onto WhatsApp and have...
Anonymous
(30-35) Need closure on the end of a friendship - thanks for your input on a VERY long post (not really a my take, sorry!)
Apologies ahead of time, for the extremely long wall of text. This is a complicated matter, that has spanned a few years - so it is impossible to write a shortened version of it. Definitely not a read, for those that...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would he text me everyday for 2.5 months (long distance)?
Guy (38) and I (30) met virtually at work, he lives in Singapore and I in the UK. Worked on the same project, got talking on work chat (he initiated), and since I rolled off the project we moved onto WhatsApp and have...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, Situationship texting out of the blue?
Met in April. Broke off in Aug. He was quiet and didn’t initiate texts or plans. If he did initiate plans they fell through. I’d had enough of the lack of effort. We spoke a few times in August and September in a friendly...
Anonymous
(36-45) How to tell someone the person they are talking to is not for them?
So a friend of mine (30f- C) is going through a divorce and has told me that she is sad; even though she doesn’t show it out in public and constantly has a warm smile on her face. Then there is another guy (28m- A) that...
JayC23
Xper 3 Age: 24 Guy doesn't have a car, unwilling to take train to meet me halfway, and wants me to come an hour to him. Am I unreasonable?
I've been texting this guy, who does not have a car and lives about 50-60 min from me. We had arranged first dates but he cancelled at the last minute or on the same day, twice. Then he would ask me to drive all the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Online Dating: Time waisters
So I am on a run again, and here we go....! People turn to online dating for a variety of reasons. They are lonely. They are recently single and want to see what else is out there. They have hear rumors and are curious...
Guys, How long will a guy typically take to set up a second date?
I just went on a first date and it went so well, he texted me after the date saying thanks for a great night & let me know that he made it home. I responded saying I had a lot of fun and that I would love go out again...
Anonymous
(25-29) He either has a crush on me or I’m friend-zoned. Which is it?
-We text pretty frequently and he calls or FaceTimes me 2-4 times a week and will chat with me for hours. -He calls me pet names, including “babe”, but it usually seems to be in a joking/sarcastic way…I think. -He’s made...
Anonymous
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