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My goal is to remain a virgin before marriage, I only wanted to lose my virginity to my husband after marriage but my boyfriend wants sex. I started acting arrogant and stripped in front of him fully nude, I was so confident he will be turned off by my pubes and he will not want sex. Instead, he finds my naked self a big turn on like HOW? In the end I lost my virginity and he even said he wants to do it with me again. HOW IS THAT EVEN POSSIBLE IT DOESN’T MAKE ANY SENSE!!! I’m going anonymous because I didn’t want people harassing me after this question. My goal to remain a virgin is now out of the window! 😩 My boyfriend even called me an idiot for assuming he will deny sex after me stripping naked! I remembered saying to him once I was nude.

Me: “take a good look be turned off by my naked self!”

boyfriend: “you’re such a idiot, how are you gonna fix my erected dick, huh?”

Me: “I’m very sorry I didn’t mean to turn you on”

after that I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and I was very surprised.

My guy friend whom I’m seeing and who has romantic feelings towards me enjoys hanging out with me and we always laugh and have a good time and he always gives me good advice and looks out for me, etc... he’s always cuddling me on the couch as well...

he never lets me sleepover tho... he knows I’m not after sex and that I really care about him yet he said he isn’t going to be ready for a long time for overnite stuff...

he’s 34 and a virgin... is he scared of getting hurt? Or does he care that much for me that he doesn’t wanna ruin things?

I saw a guy for a few months back in my early twenties. I settled with him because no one better came around, bad decision hence I should have waited for someone that really met what I was looking for. I was a virgin at the time, he was not. I really tested him with my virginity. I didn’t want to have sex right away, I wanted him to get tested for STDs which he did. After a month in, we finally did have sex but he did say that he wouldn’t have waited if I decided to hold off until marriage. When he visited, he bought almost everything he covered the bill 80+% of the time. But he wasn’t romantic, he made it clear there were times when he was romantic with his exes and he knew I wanted the same type of chivalry. All he did was take me out to dinner for Valentine’s Day. He bought us a cruise package for his birthday but again no romantic gestures, more just taking out his wallet to cover the bare minimum. The other red flag id say is he talked about his exes more than I would have liked, even though he knew I was suspicious of that. He kept on saying that he was over them, he brought them up because he happened to have a lot of his social experiences with them

I saw a guy for a few months back in my early twenties. I settled with him because no one better came around, bad decision hence I should have waited for someone that really met what I was looking for. I was a virgin at the time, he was not. I really tested him with my virginity. I didn’t want to have sex right away, I wanted him to get tested for STDs which he did. After a month in, we finally did have sex but he did say that he wouldn’t have waited if I decided to hold off until marriage. When he visited, he bought almost everything he covered the bill 80+% of the time. But he wasn’t romantic, he made it clear there were times when he was romantic with his exes and he knew I wanted the same type of chivalry. All he did was take me out to dinner for Valentine’s Day. He bought us a cruise package for his birthday but again no romantic gestures, more just taking out his wallet to cover the bare minimum. The other red flag id say is he talked about his exes more than I would have liked, even though he knew I was suspicious of that. He kept on saying that he was over them, he brought them up because he happened to have a lot of his social experiences with them

I always thought that the good guys would appreciate a girl that doesn’t come with a lot of baggage. I’ve only had sex and dated one guy, lol I haven’t had sex since and this was over 3 years ago. I feel the opportunity could have happened but I really just don’t have the urge to sleep around. I live alone, I could have had guys over. People say that I’m just a square but I just don’t have the urge. But sometimes I think screw it, I should try to live it up because I’m on the road to being a spinster anyway. I want a quality guy but really guys don’t give me the time of day, I’m told I’m attractive, few of you agreed. But I don’t get approached in person, I’ve tried dating apps only but have not had any luck besides the last guy I dated. Quite frankly, nothing was lucky about that. I felt like I was settling physically and would have preferred to remain a virgin. I don’t care if I never have sex again, I would like a quality guy though. Don’t want kids either, I just worry years down the line I will feel regret for being so antisocial and living an uneventful life. But I just can’t wrap my head around why the kind of guy I want wouldn’t have come around yet, most educated attractive women have no issue getting a date.