What is your opinion about this?

[Anonymous]

If someone says that they want to be a born again virgin in the name of Christ, even tho they already have a child and have had sex in the past but are not with the child's other parent anymore and the next relationship they have they want to wait to have sex until they get married like they originally wanted to but didn't do.

[CrazyGirl2]

Yeah, no! I happen to know for sure that once it’s gone, it’s gone. Grow up! Taking a vow of celibacy for your religion does NOT make you in ANY way a virgin again! Also, if a friend told me “I’ve decided I’m not gonna have sex again until I’m married, I’m just sick of the crap that goes along with it. It’s just not worth it!“ I am going to be so happy for you. I’m going to be so supportive, I’m going to wish you all the luck in the world, and depending on the type of person you are I’m either going to have full confidence in you that it’s gonna work, or I’m gonna know it’s not gonna work, but I’m still gonna wish you luck and support you anyway. But born again virgin? That just sounds like another way of saying former slut! I mean how bad we’re you sexual escapades that you now feel it necessary to ask the son of God for a waiver?
Seriously, just get over it… You’re not a virgin anymore. That’s a one time use coupon, and you already used yours! This “born-again virgin” scheme seems like a pseudo-religious way of lying to your future husband about your virginity and not feeling bad about it! And if you are going to tell him that you are in fact not a virgin but you’ve had quite the sexual adventure in your life, what’s the point? If god forgave you your sins, why is that not good enough for you, or your future husband?

[Daniela1982]

Depends if they were married to the child's father. If they got divorced the Bible says those who marry a divorced woman commits adultery. Luke 16:18 - "Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries one who is divorced from a husband commits adultery." If she was not a Christian when married it might be different. 2 Corinthians 5:17 - Amplified Bible "
Therefore if anyone is in Christ [that is, joined to Him by faith in Him as Savior], he is a new creature [reborn and renewed by the Holy Spirit]; the old things [the previous moral and spiritual condition] have passed away. Behold, new things have come [because spiritual awakening brings a new life]. If this is the case she is good to go to marry as her old sins and morality has become new.

[ChrisMaster69]

While I appreciate virginity is a social construct.

dropping your child off at school and telling everyone they are a virgin, will get some funny looks.

Saying that, the Bible is full of a fair bit of hypocrisy and nonsense, so it works I guess,

[boggboss]

They can do whatever they want I would think they are a idiot but that's up to them

[Asker]

Why would they be an idiot in your view?

[boggboss]

Because they are not a born again virgin there is no such thing they can say they want to wait to get married to have sex in the future but it don't make them a virgin again

[Asker]

I get what you're saying but that's literally the textbook terminology of someone who wants to be born again in the name of Christ and wait to have sex until married even if they have already had sex. They are called born again in Christ virgins.

[boggboss]

Sounds like a stupid term then to be honest again like I said it's their choice but if someone told me they was a born again Christ virgin I would have a chuckle inside at them

[EmmaMary]

Sadly they would be completely delusional... Sorry.

[TacosRAwesome]

Everyone has the right to wait and all relationships are different but I dont have a positive view of born again virgins.

[awkward_author]

I don't have a problem with it. They can do and believe whatever they want.

[noohair]

That they made mistakes and want to change. Old habits die hard.

[Wise4myage]

I would wish them the best and good luck.

[Nahid1707]

She can do that yes