Welp, I finally reached the age of the a 27 year old virgin? Am I doing something wrong or is it wrong in general to be a virgin at this age?

[poneglyphs]

Would people even believe me, when I tell them that? Is it all in my head that women care about this? I don't feel sad at all just a little confused on how I got here so far? I still haven't had sex or my first girlfriend?🥺
Do women find that cute or just sad?😔
So, am I date able? Should I just hire an escort and practice with her?

I do have a better job now so that's something. Well, I'm almost a wizard as people say? Hopefully I don't say this next year? 😖😖😖

If you're wondering of my personality I'm a weeb, goofball, who likes having fun and making other people laugh. All of my friends say that I'm enjoyable and stupid but in a fun way. I'm 5'2, weigh 185, and know 2 languages.

[Shamalien]

I’ll be straight with ya, your begging, whining attitude is gunna send all the girls running for the hills. The attention it does get you will not be sexual. You could use this strategy to secure a pity fuck if that’s what you want, men have managed it, but it’s pretty sad. Don’t ever complain about being a virgin again, especially not on the internet. Instead try focusing on bettering yourself and stop giving a shit if you get laid or not. It’s all a game of push and pull. Women can sense desperation from a mile away. What they go nuts for is a man that could take em or leave em…that’s the attitude that saved me. Society convinces us that sex and virginity are such big things and it ruins neurotic people; stop putting so much emphasis on it. And #1 rule, NO MORE PORN, I think porn is the biggest reason our generation is half irredeemable sluts half virgins

[poneglyphs]

Well sorry for feeling insecure about that and just thinking that most guys already know how to talk with women and other things.

[Shamalien]

The pitiful attitude continues... see this kind of talk just dries women right up. So what if you don’t know shit, pretend you do, fake it!

[boggboss]

So how are your interactions with women

[poneglyphs]

What women i only talk with the bois. I rarely interact with women in my day to day life

[boggboss]

So how would u get a girlfriend if u don't interact with women mate?

[poneglyphs]

I don't know, I talk to some but they get bored and ghost me? So...

[boggboss]

Clearly u need to do it more them and work out how to talk to women mate I was the same as u had no clue what I was doing yet wanting a partner but doing nothing to interact with women

[poneglyphs]

Hmmm, okay. I just don't meet girls qnd when I do they just leave me on read? Do you think I can fix this before next year? So, you don't see me post another one on these? I have been posting these for 4 years straight already ☹☹☹

[boggboss]

U have been posting these but what have u been doing to improve the situation as posting these ain't going to fix the situation

[poneglyphs]

As other people say just doing my own hobbies and having fun with my friends. That's what eveyone tells me to do and not focus on women

[boggboss]

Which is fine but if u have no interaction with women I your life how do u expect to get a partner sorry?

[boggboss]

Or any expirance with women

[poneglyphs]

I don't know, most people tell me not to chase women because it makes me look desperate but if I don't it just makes me single as fuck and talk to no girls? So... what should I do?

[boggboss]

Interact with women join some dating sites attempt to talk to them maybe go to some blind date nights your focus at the moment should be learning to interact with women not necessarily getting a women focusing on women and interacting with women are differnt things

[Bel88]

What they're telling you is wrong; they're giving you bad advice. You need to be more willing to try something new if what you're doing now isn't working. You need to mix with more women, go out more, get away from the "bois", and show a real interest in personal growth and development. Just doing the same thing over and over again is the very definition of insanity.

[boggboss]

He is just a guy thats been fed bad advice pretty boreal stuff just needs to work out what he is doing wrong and fix it

[poneglyphs]

I am on dating sites and have been trying to meet more women irl. No, luck on either of thoses 😖

[Bel88]

He admits to having "posted these for 4 years" now. In other words, he hasn't learnt a damn thing during that whole time, and is either too afraid or too stubborn to actually try something new. With that attitude he'll get nowhere, and will remain a virgin the rest of his life.

[boggboss]

Yes because the advice given to him before has continued to make him feel he is doing the right thing so showing him where he is going wrong and what things he can do to help his situation is all thats really needed

[boggboss]

Dating can be hard but thats why I said your first focus should be on interacting with women not necessarily getting into a relationship as u may bit be equipped at talking with women which would make it pointless getting into a relationship

[poneglyphs]

Hmmm, What should I do to change my circumstances so this year I can have more success?

[boggboss]

Again just interact more they do blond dates meetups when talking with women on dating apps don't focus on getting a date but on the interaction so u can work out why women don't find u interesting is it because u don't know what to say or they don't seem to think u care maybe its because u say the wrong thing or come off as desperate tey and work out why your interactions have gone poorly

[poneglyphs]

Hmm I will try just that I don't find too many matches and girls rarely respond to me. I can barely make a while conversation on apps before they stop responding to me.

[boggboss]

How do u normally initiate conversation

[poneglyphs]

I usually try to find something interesting about their profile and tell them oh, that's cool or find something that we like and talk about it.

[boggboss]

Yeah thats seems to be pretty goof maybe it's further talking then

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, I rarely say hey or anything like that. I Try to engage the conversation but no-one really responds.

[whirled_up_girl]

Happy birthday! I know I can’t speak for all women but when I was your age I honestly wouldn’t have been that bothered by a guy still being a virgin at 27. I guess I would’ve just figured he had his reasons for wanting to wait or maybe just hadn’t met the right girl yet. For me what was more important was that the guy I was dating and I could talk about what we both wanted out of life and a relationship together.

I also agree with the other commentor who said to focus on being more confident in yourself I think that will go a long way in getting a girl interested.

[poneglyphs]

Hmm alright I just have trouble communicating with women and other things. That's why I don't do it that much. Also, most girls don't even bother to know me before they get bored I just stop putting effort. I feel like I'm the only one who puts on the effort sometimes in conversations.

[Anonymous]

Be proud that you are a virgin. You minority virgins are literally nuggets of precious gold waiting to be beautifully worked. 🙏 By the way, happy 27th birthday. 🎂

[poneglyphs]

Yo, what do you mean by that? I want to lose it not keep it

[Honesttguy]

Proud? Thats bit too much. Why dont u go and fuk him?

[Jamie05rhs]

@Honesttguy She lives in another country.

[Honesttguy]

@Jamie05rhs think distance is obstacle for guy if his about to get laid?

[Jamie05rhs]

@Honesttguy Would you fly across the ocean to get laid?

[Honesttguy]

@Jamie05rhs i know people who have done exactly that

[poneglyphs]

@Honesttguy lmao, that's a great response

[Jamie05rhs]

@Honesttguy Then they are dumb as hell.

[Honesttguy]

@Jamie05rhs it would make sense to go with escort i agree but u see he wanted some relationship

[Jamie05rhs]

@Honesttguy Having sex with a prostitute is also dumb as hell.

[Opinion Owner]

mr. @Jamie05rhs shut up please, don't tire yourself anymore. because you can't show these sin supporter the truth. they prefer to be intoxicated by the fleeting pleasures of the world.

[Honesttguy]

@Jamie05rhs well some guys have no other option do they? What you gonna fuk them?

[Honesttguy]

Try speedating, don't try to be funny it takes away sexual tension between men and women. U can be funny after u fuk them.
Speak slower, take longer pauses when speak this is huge one to build more tension.
And be more male to female, not treating them like friends.

Also learn to dress well if u haven't already, grooming, fitness just basic stuff.

[poneglyphs]

I do know how to groom myself and bathe. I do exercise when I'm not tired from work

[Dchrls78104]

Wrong? Absolutely not. Rather, if you have not found and married someone you wish to be with, then your being a virgin, especially as a western man in these times, shows wisdom and is safe. Dating has already become a high stakes game of Russian roulette for the modern man in the west; and so any girl (like one or two posters below) who would ridicule your virginity or say that it's wrong for you to be a virgin is probably damaged goods and certainly not someone you would want to think about, much less get involved with.

[Citizenkirk]

Do you let women that you are attracted to know how you feel because if you are waiting for people to come to you and ask you out then it may or may not happen. It has happened to me but also I have been shot down a lot of times asking someone out and it's humiliating to be told what a nice guy I am and how they are trying to work on themselves blah blah blah gibberish gibberish gibberish but the fact that every once in a while someone will actually say yes I would like to go out with you. So that is what I recommend you do ask people out and see what happens and find a way to be okay with rejection once in awhile.

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, I do let them know. Just that they either laugh it off or ignore it. So, yeah.

[Avicenna]

If someone has realistic expectations and isn't finding what they want in a partner, then by definition they're doing something wrong. Find ways to increase your social circle.

[poneglyphs]

Hmmm okay will do somehow?

[Avicenna]

Join groups, do volunteer work. Don't just hang out with your male friends.

[TheorionMage]

You're half through your most fertile years!
IF you're planning upon having a family, do you expect the Deity
to simply DROP a winsome willing faithful companion upon your tumescent lap?

Get off yer tookis and figure out your priorities!!!

[poneglyphs]

Hmm no but I would like to date and have a sex life

[Slartybartfast]

Guys like you will just get used and abused , you're better off single anyway.

[poneglyphs]

Hmmm damm for real 😳 🥺🥺🥺

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, Happy Birthday, man! I hope you have an enjoyable day and have some sort of fun. Enjoy being single while it lasts! :)

[poneglyphs]

Lol, I can tey but it's going to snow all day and like 2 feet of it 😔😔😔

[Jamie05rhs]

@poneglyphs Snow is nice!

[poneglyphs]

Not when I have to shovel 😔😔😔🥶🥶

[Jamie05rhs]

@poneglyphs Oh. Lol

[Slartybartfast]

Yeah, happy birthday! I'm in Ohio and it's ice with snow on it. I'm at work (I'm essential employee at a university so I got to be here) they are setting me up in a hotel on campus so I'm here all weekend.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Slartybartfast Nice

[noohair]

I was born fat. A no carb diet saved me. Good luck bro.

[poneglyphs]

Thanks dude

[Throwdownxxx]

How do you currently try to meet women? Are you relying on the internet or for them to come up to you? That will never happen. Go out, talk to girls, compliment them and be funny, be direct, get laid.

[poneglyphs]

Mostly online orher than that really don't meet women irl. I don't go out much duebto covid and I'm barely making real money for myself

[Throwdownxxx]

Well, maybe it’s time to get your affairs in order so you can feel better and more confident.

[poneglyphs]

Yup, making like almost 600 a week is helping me 😊😊😊

[Throwdownxxx]

Good dude, just keep working on yourself. Try mindful meditation if you haven’t. Look into stoicism. The better you get and feel about yourself the more confidence you will have and girls will like that.

[poneglyphs]

Hmmm maybe I will😊😊😚

[MountAverage]

What does "wrong" mean in this context? Morally wrong? Or what?

[poneglyphs]

I guess morally wrong

[MountAverage]

Okay. So that would imply it is harming someone. Who would you be harming and how?

[GlassTop]

Get off social media. That should increase your chances to loosing it.

[poneglyphs]

Well, I'm only on reddit, gag, and YouTube

[chilldude33]

I think women, or people in general, like energy. Sad clown energy is not it.

[poneglyphs]

Hmm why is that sad clown energy?

[chilldude33]

Because you think being a virgin is sad and that you like making people laugh by being stupid

[poneglyphs]

Oh, i see, so I shouldn't act like that at all?

[chilldude33]

If you want a girlfriend, look at how boyfriends act.

[exitseven]

It's all in your head.

[poneglyphs]

Maybe, but at least I got a better job now 😁😁

[exitseven]

hey, good for you. I am glad.

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, it is a factory job but they do bring in big checks

[exitseven]

that is good. Do you make widgets?

[poneglyphs]

Nope, I work at a chapstick factory. It's easy, and there's a lot of things I still got to knoe

[exitseven]

Cool, so I have a Chapstick connection when I run out.

[poneglyphs]

Lol, yeah 😁😁

[exitseven]

I use Chapstick a lot. You don't pee in the Chapstick vat do you?

[poneglyphs]

No, gross 🤢🤢🤢

[Bel88]

We don't find it cute; not only is it sad, but it's kind of a red flag too. Knowing two languages isn't that impressive either.

[chilldude33]

savage

[Bel88]

@chilldude33 Perhaps, but also true.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, okay, so I'm a walking red flag anything else I should know?

[Bel88]

There is a lot you apparently don't know. For example, you wrote this in your response to 'Boggboss'
"What women? I only talk with the boys. I rarely interact with women in my day-to-day life", and
"I talk to some, but they get bored and ghost me"
It seems to me that you're self-absorbed, that you only like to discuss the things that you are interested in whenever you get the (apparently rare) opportunity to interact with women, and you don't seem to realise that the person you're with perhaps has something that she would like to discuss.
I would get bored too. Successful interaction requires empathy, consideration and showing a real interest in the person you're interested in.
This may be a really personal question to ask, but do you have Asperger's Syndrome? I ask because having that condition can throw a real proverbial spanner in the works, and really screw up one's chances of finding a prospective romantic partner.

[Bel88]

Yes, a red flag, because being a virgin at the grand old age of 27 is baffling. It indicates there is something seriously wrong mentally with the person who is so willing to admit to something so embarrassing.

[poneglyphs]

Nope, I don't have any diseases, I can talk to an audience. I do let others talk, when people talk to me. So, no you're wrong about that.

[Bel88]

Asperger's Syndrome is not a disease. It's a difference in neurological wiring, a difference in general perspective, in the way that those who have it see the world.

[poneglyphs]

So, why is being a virgin at 27 means something is wrong with me? Also, I doubt I have Asperger's Syndrome

[Bel88]

Simply because a person who has developed naturally and without any serious mental aberrations will seek out a romantic partner as soon as he or she develops the urge to, and will not wait so long, until they're well into their 20's, because to do so would seriously lessen their chances of finding a life-long partner.
Therefore there must be something wrong somewhere here, either in your general attitude to women, the way you present yourself to them, the way you treat them, or something else. You need to do a lot of soul-searching, because you're clearly not very self-aware.

[Bel88]

You doubt you have A. S.
Okay then, answer the following questions:
1. Is it easy for you to make eye contact with others?
2. Do you enjoy talking to women, and are not nervous around them?
3. Is your tone of voice monotonous, or do people say it is?
4. Do little things like clothing tags really irritate you?
5. Do you understand nuance, hints, non-literal language?
6. Do you believe you're always right, and that you can't possibly be wrong, about anything?
7. Do you have a lot of friends (I mean REAL friends, not 'Facebook' ones)?
8. Are you hyper-sensitive to certain lights, textures, tastes or sounds?

[poneglyphs]

1. Yes I can
2. Yes I do and will
3. not that I know off
4. nope, not really
5. yes, I do
6. Nope, you change my mind with evidence
7. yeah, I have like 16 real life and more online
8. Nope, I am not

[poneglyphs]

Well, I did try during college and haven't got any results. Also, my view on women are normal I guess? I try to talk to them like my other friends and act normal around them. I make them laugh a lot but doesn't really go anywhere once I talk to them on the phone.

[NathanDavis]

@poneglyphs your views on women are not normal...

you see them as a way to get the sex you want and your own idea of how sex should be

you don't see them as the person they are individually and that is not normal

the fact that you're 27 today does not change the things, it is exactly the same as all the times we have talked about this in the last months and you were 26

you need to make yourself responsible and acquire responsibilities... you like things easy and handed to you, and this is your view of women and sex too... you want women to just "hand themselves" over to you so you get sex

[Shamalien]

To the judgmental bitch:

This situation is very common for men these days. The market has changed. Dating has changed. A large portion of men only have success with women around late 20s early 30s. The social scene is not what it was. I notice that most people who lose their V early on are the party types, they have only alcohol to thank for their “success”. It is a shame where we are at, but this is the playing field, don’t hate the player. I remember being very horny as a teen, but because of porn that feeling did not connect to women. Only when I was really drunk would my inhibitions be low enough for any touching / kissing. My one piece of advice to this guy would be stop watching porn, that’s the main reason young men stay virgins for so long these days

[Slartybartfast]

Wow, you're mean.

[moviedude714]

People are entitled to their opinion or people have a right to their opinion but I've always felt that autism is going to affect men's dating lives more than women's dating lives due to how men have always been expected to be the initiators and Court women

[moviedude714]

I hate human nature at times because of this