Will this type of intimacy reduce chances of a man from cheating / breaking up with you?

[Anonymous]

My plan to reduces chances of him cheating on me is to get him totally 100% addicted to me.

This means going to sleep with each other in same bed, sleeping in each other's arms, with our faces right next to each other and breathing in each other's breath all night (so much that both our breathing patterns are the same). Eventually he will get so used to falling asleep with me in this manner that he wouldn't be able to fall asleep without me. During sex, I would look deep into his eyes while he is inside me. Soul gazing so much that both our souls become 1. I hug him so closely that we could feel each other's heartbeat vibrations. Both our hearts synchronize with each other. We will be so in tune with each other that we will breathe, walk, heart beat at the same pace. Our souls will connect. Anything bad that happens to me will also feel like it happened to him

[RespectfulGuy]

There's a saying: After you satisfy your man's hunger for passion, make him a sandwich.

As a man, I know my carnal desires. And yes, after I'm satisfied, I enjoy eating and drinking a lot.

And above all, after sex and food, I want friends who are of my intellectual level to challenge my intellect. And I want friends who can build up my financial and social status.

Yes, I'm more complicated than a sex machine. And I think guys in general want a lot more than sex + food.

To conclude, your attempt is wonderful. But your focus is too narrow. Expand to satisfy his stomach and mind too. And if possible, be his friend and business partner. Perhaps these may bind him to you, after his head above and below are satisfied.

[RebelinSteel]

Nope that would put me off

i could not face someone falling asleep

[Anonymous]

That level of intimacy is something to aspire to but remember that people will always do what they want to do. At the end of the day, no matter how close you think you are, if he has a mind to cheat, he’s going to cheat. It’s good that you’d be willing to be a great partner and attempt to create such intimacy but make sure you’re doing it, because of love, not because of fear that he will cheat.

[Asker]

a man can cheat but never leave his wife. maybe because the intimacy is just so strong.

[Opinion Owner]

I agree that creating a bond like that makes it much harder to break.

[NamerOfStars]

I think all the women whose husbands have left them kinda prove otherwise. Ultimately, the only sure way to make a man stick around is to make him WANT to stick around.

[Asker]

@NamerOfStars

Or you can make him sooo attached that leaving her behind is difficult

[RedInnocent69]

It’s a nice thought. I love the intimacy. Harder to do consistently in practice.

[Asker]

do you think this can really prevent a guy from leaving you or cheating on you?

[RedInnocent69]

Probably not. It’s also about communication and you relationship outside of bed. Keeping his balls drained is a good start, though.

[Pterodon]

Only if he feels the same