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I just saw my ex who I have not talked to in the last 2 years. I saw him today on the same train I was going to catch (it felt like fait honestly. You know in those chick flick movies were you see to people in the hall way who are clearly into each other and everything around them feels slow, but with them feels like time was never running out) 😂 something like that I felt, very spiritual. I felt there was this bond that I haven’t felt with him for so long, but it’s weird now for me to talk to him... Since everything that happened in between. I haven’t spoke to him since the last fight, which needed up... messy. I don’t know I just talk to talk to him and clear everything up. But I am afraid that it will end like the last time and that he will hurt me again. I don’t know him anymore, or maybe I never did. But in some funny way this feels like a second chance, tho I am not sure. I had a friend say before; ‘that if a guy ever wants you, then he will reach out no matter what’. I don’t know if I should listen to her advice that she gave to herself or if I should fall my heart again and give him a chance. I don’t know to do, what should I do guys. Be brutally honest.

Recently, I was beginning to talk to someone I met from online. We had a good convo on the phone before meeting up. When we met in person, we discussed tentatively meeting up the next day to go for breakfast. He mentioned that he would reach out the next day to schedule plans. The next day comes and I don’t hear from him until the evening (can’t remember if it was the evening or the following day). I gave him the cold shoulder because he pretty much stood me up. I told him why I was perturbed with him and he did not see an issue. He apologized, mentioned that he got called into work unexpectedly and had a busy day. We talked on the phone and I mentioned that I would consider wanting to talk to him again. He follows up the next day to check on me and I ghosted him.