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I have been seeing someone for coming up on 4 months that I am seeing between 1-2x a week. This didn’t bother me at first, but I’m starting to question if he actually wants to date me. All the other people I have dated wanted to spend as much time as possible with me. There were a couple weeks we didn’t see each other and 2x he left the country for 2 weeks and didn’t tell me until the week of. I told him at 2 months I wasn’t sure if I was someone of actual interest or to help pass time. The amount I see him hasn’t changed even after making the point my love language is quality time. He is older and I’m not sure if he has ever had a proper relationship, but I can’t continue to see myself with someone who doesn’t want to spend enough time for me to actually get to know them. Am I overthinking this?

Long story short: my boyfriend and I were together for just over a year, we’ve both been there for each other to doctors appointments, he helped me lose weight and encouraged me to get my drivers license and was always cooking for me... always very affectionate as well... his parents really love me as well - especially his mom... she was even inviting me over for the holidays and teaching me about Judaism and baking with me and driving places with me... my boyfriend and I were also living together at his parents house for 5 whole months as well and everyday I was visiting him at the hospital when he ha surgery and he was ther for me when I had a minor surgery as well... he was in jail for 3 months cuz he drive with an invalid drivers license and I waited for him and everyday he was calling me and his mom and telling. Me that he loves me and wants a future with me and was making future plans with me... also was encouraging me to spend time with his family... now when he retired back, we had some miss understandings and a fight and we took a break.. he met this aggressive bitchy goth chic who always fights him and abuses him... he was begging me to come back for 2 whole weeks and even gave me a mermaid necklace cuz he knows I love the little mermaid...
he always hugs me and kisses me in his sleep and whispers that he loves me so much and sometimes even holds my hand in his sleep... but that other abusive woman is still around and he tells me he doesn’t love her at all and that I have better qualities than her... his mom even tells him that she prefers me over the other woman and his dad can’t stand her either... his parents tell him I’m more suitable for him as well... this other woman bruised him and beat him up as well...

he someotimes gets into bad/sad moods when I leave his place... does he still love me and seem to regret the break we took?