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I've been seeing a girl for almost five years and we're engaged. She went out with her friends to a club. I trusted her because she's never cheated or even flirted with other guys. She was also a virgin when we met so that means she'd be more loyal. Last year she told me she was pregnant and we decided to start a family together because we agreed at the beginning if the baby would be healthy we'd keep it.

This past Monday she had the baby but I said I needed a paternity test before I said I was the father because I wanted to be 100% sure because some girls lie to guys about being the father. She said she didn't mind if I really wanted a paternity test. I found out last night that the results showed I'm not the father.

I confronted her last night and she was crying saying she made a big mistake and had a one night stand at a club. She hoped it was mine but was afraid of losing me. She said she doesn't know at all who the father is and that it will be impossible to find out. She said she doesn't know what she'll do without me. She said she had a little too much to drink and wasn't thinking properly. She said she's been trying to make it up to me and show she loves me. I know she does and I still love her a lot but I don't know if I can stay after what she did. Her baby is white, with blonde hair and blue eyes, so that makes the situation a little better. I'm not racist but if she had a interracial baby then I would have left immediately because everyone would view me as a total cuck.

She's almost 21 so people might say she made a common mistake but cheating isn't a mistake even if its one night.

She really betrayed and hurt me, and what she did has sort of humiliated me. What do you think I should do in this situation? I told her last night I was calling off the wedding but I'd give it time to think about staying with her.

Ok so I’m 18yo and in year 5 (grade 13) of hs for one last Sumester of coop (if you don’t know what it is, it’s a program they have for the seniors to do half or full school days in a work environment and we get credits for it, the name may be different around the globe but here in Canada we call it coop so therefore, I am very rarely at school)

Anyway today we had a big showcase where all the students enrolled in the program do a presentation in school by displaying their placement on a Bristol board and talking about it to those who are interested. Anyway during the set up once I was finished, I walked up to a girl I thought was pretty, asked her about her placement and she engages, she asked me about mine and we struck up a big conversation from there. We had a really nice conversation actually and what ended it were the teachers telling us to prepare for the showcase to begin. Our conversation had to have been close to half an hr.

Anyway we spoke a bit more later in the day but not as much and in the end we exchanged Instagram pages and now follow each other. She liked a huge handful of my posts and I did the same.
I’d love to get to know her more but the thing is, I have no clue when the next opportunity will pop up because I am hardly ever in the school and the second Sumester won’t be an option because I’ll be all done school by then. So anyway should I dm her on instagram and start with something casual like ‘hi how are you’. I don’t want to go too far too quickly nor do I want to put pressure on her but I just would love to get to talk to her more often than just once a month.
Anyway any advice here?

I’m not in it for sex wither, I just want to get to know her and possibly have a more serious relationship and if we did get there, I’d never pressure her into doing something she dosent want to do. My #1 Priority is making sure she is comfortable.