Engaged in Five Days
Moving to fast
You may think this is a bad thing, but that couldn't be further from the truth. People say moving to fast in a relationship is a bad thing and will set you up to fail but not always. In my case it took little to no time to realize he was the one for me. So, why waste any time when the best time is the present. Specifically, It took me one day to love him, three days to move in, and on the second day of living together we got engaged so engaged in five days. When you really like someone, you should move fast. Faster even than you might be comfortable with. If your new person is the right one for you, things are going to move fast, whether you like it or not. Why waste time dating if you know in your heart he is The One?
How I knew it was right
My old fears and rules had totally disappear. I didn't care about anything expect spending the rest of my time with this person, and I couldn't believe how scared I was that I would never meet anyone again I cared about so much, or someone who cared so much for me. Being in a relationship isn't terrifying anymore, it's the greatest thing in the world. I had no fear committing to him. Normally, I had been afraid of a serious commitment but with him I had no fear only excitement. My family loved him and my friends did as well. I had been around my fiance before but only a hand full of times. I always had a horrible crush on him but never said anything. We both stayed over at a mutual friend's one night by morning we knew something was happening between us. Something niether one of us had expierenced before in life. Now I realize looking back it was simply true love.
Don't listen to others
It's your life do what you want to do with it. Don't listen to negative comments from friends or family.Having strong feelings for someone isn’t a bad thing, but if you have a gut instinct that says “this is all happening too quickly”, don’t ignore it. Acknowledge it, and do so in a way that’s comfortable for you. If you don't have that gut feeling telling you to slow down then don't because of others opinions.
When True Love Comes
You might have thought you loved people before this, and maybe you did. But it doesn't compare to the love you're dealing with now, and you feel super different. You're still the same girl, and yet you're not at all. You feel forever changed by your new Love and the positive influence he's had on your life, and when that happens, you jump right in. You don't think about the negative things that could happen, because to you, that isn't even possible. With great risk comes great rewards. Fallowing your heart is a risk worth taking.
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