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Search Results: first thing to notice
How to best handle a competitive female?
There’s a man I liked. I’ve noticed in the more recent posts, where some of my questions were about him, a younger woman keeps popping up, saying things like that he’s not interested and to find another guy; and sharing...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do guys show interest then stop when I show interest back?
Growing up I never had like male attention except here and there. Only up until my first year of college. Now I get a lot of male attention, and a lot of guys approach me but some don’t come off too pushy like first...
Anonymous
(18-24) What should I do?
Guys, I’ve been through a really long path love wise. I had my first boyfriend when I was 15.. he passed away in a car accident when I turned 17. I was devastated.. years later I got in a relationship with another guy. We...
Anonymous
(30-35) Some guys use "we" or say things like they're going to make me their signature dishes when we've only been on one dates?
I noticed that a lot of guys would use "we" when I've only gone on one dates with them. For example, I said that I had not traveled much but would like to do so more. One guy said "We need to change that." Um, "we"? 😄...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it possible he loves me?
So there's this guy (of course... I'll call him "max") I've known him since childhood, he gave me a diamond bracelet when we were kids. We hung out as teens (almost hooked up, but didn't, I chickened out), we lost touch...
Anonymous
(36-45) Interracial relationship... Do you need to discuss potential racial issues that may come up?
I'm a black carribean woman dating a mixed race (white English/ black Caribbean man). This following weekend he met my sisters friends for the first time at a birthday party. Anyways one of my sisters closest friends came...
lilyanony1
Yoda Age: 35 Curious about ex’s use of snapchat?
My ex and I broke up 5 or so months ago. Pretty abrupt, I’ll save the sob story. Long story short I told him I needed space/couldnt be friends right away like he wanted. He sent me nudes, we had a little fight, and have...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, Why won't this girl text me anymore after I took her virginity?
So I met this girl at a store who worked there stocking. I thought she was cute and so I gave her my number. She texted me later that day and we started talking. (She's 18 and I'm 32/male). Anyways we ended up setting up...
Anonymous
(30-35) He apologises to me for little things?
this guys I work with he always apologises for little things he doesn’t need to be. Like he says “ sorry ( my name) can I use your computer?” Or “ sorry ( my name) I’m just getting something here” like every time he comes...
Anonymous
(25-29) What am I doing wrong?
single for 3 years. Had many first dates, met many men, and have never found myself “dating” someone. Every guy I like, only sees me as fun and is either newly out of a relationship and “isn’t ready” or just isn’t...
Jam888
Xper 3 Age: 44 Have you noticed this pattern or tendency when it comes to fights/disagreements (see in description)?
Have you noticed a pattern or tendency that characterizes the nature and cause of disagreements/"fights"/arguments between a woman and another woman and one between a man and another man? After watching Hell's...
TalkWithoutSpeaking
Xper 6 Age: 29 Should this red flag end our relationship?
My boyfriend and I have only been together for 3 months. We moved quickly. After our 2nd date, he asked me to move in with him. He told me he was going to marry me the first day he met me. The only reason we are not...
Lueluna777
Xper 2 Age: 26 How to know if she truly loves me or she is just using me for now until her crush/her ex give her some attention?
I met this girl on a dating app, and we've been seeing each other for about 3 months. We recently entered into a relationship. It's worth mentioning that she was the one who gave me her number, expressed her liking and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Thoughts on sharing last bite of food and some other gestures?
I spent time with my ex boyfriend this weekend. Saw him for the first time in a year. Couple little things I noticed were that he got a blanket for me when he noticed I was cold and put It over m. I didn’t even ask him...
Anonymous
(30-35) Cutting contact with toxic friend. Should I tell him I'll cut contact or just do it?
I used to be friends with a guy from a mutual friend group. We often went to do things with the same group and spoke often. After a while I noticed that he kept sending flirty messages and double/triple texts with gifs...
Anonymous
(25-29) My boyfriend has a close female friend that he has confessed he's attracted to, should I be worried?
First off I want to preface that I'm (early 20s) my boyfriend's (early 30s) first real relationship. We've been together for 2 years now with minimal issues. He's very expressive in his love and devotion for me so I doubt...
brightpapaya
Xper 4 Age: 26 I think my guy friend is projecting, how should I approach him about it?
So first my friend is about 2-3 years younger than me (I’m 24 he’s 21) we used to be coworkers but now we work at other jobs now. A quick little background about him, he used to be bullied and picked on a lot by girls in...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is it with arguing in today's age, all I seem to see is people stuck on top of a hill with no willingness to even meet halfway?
Recent - very stupid "argument/discussion". A short was portraying two customers at a cafe one did a complicated and detailed order stating exact what she wanted and pumps of this syrups of this and flavours of this...
19magic
Guru Age: 29 Guys, Why do Men only want to sleep with me?
I will turn 26 this month and I have never been in a relationship. I am never taken serious, I am always with no exceptions sexualized. Even if the guys i was with had good intentions at first they turned sexual a few...
Sandraxxo
Xper 2 Age: 28 When did you first notice that you started getting older?
Last year was the breaking point for me. I have started getting more cautious about the things around me. I realised that I had been late for too many things till' that moment.😔😔
BlissfullyCurSed
Explorer Age: 25 