How to best handle a competitive female?

[Anonymous]

There’s a man I liked. I’ve noticed in the more recent posts, where some of my questions were about him, a younger woman keeps popping up, saying things like that he’s not interested and to find another guy; and sharing information about how he’s seen her undressed. He’s implied a lack of interest in her; but the first time I just wished her luck. Now, she’s starting to annoy me. How best to handle this? Block her, ignore her or be nice to her? I don’t compete over men and I have no interest in fighting with her. It’s just starting to annoy me, her coming back and creating drama over nothing and sharing stuff like their sex life.

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I’d normally think it might be a set up, to try to make me jealous, except this guy is very hot, rich and charismatic. So it’s not impossible that a younger, silly woman might act like a cat in heat over him.

[slatyb]

Ignore her and focus on your relationship with him.

"There's a man I liked" -- did he like you back?

[Asker]

He keeps coming back and insisting that he did/does.

[slatyb]

Are you dating? "Keeps coming back?" implies that he leaves and returns. Does he?

[Asker]

We’re not dating. He asked me to be his valentine. I didn’t know what to say, so I didn’t say anything.

[Asker]

He answers my questions.

[KrakenAttackin]

"I don’t compete over men and I have no interest in fighting with her".

Why? Are you too amazing to demonstrate why he should be with you rather than her? How about you up your game. Realize that this guy has options and will exercise them if you are found lacking.

First, I suggest you lose the bitchy/entitled attitude.

[Asker]

How am I bitchy or entitled and why should I have to act like a cat in heat to get a guy to want me? I too have many options. 😊

[Asker]

Basically, you’re saying I should be grateful that I’ve got a stupid woman trying to cause me drama, when I’m minding my own business.

[Asker]

So how to best handle it? Ignore or block her?

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... I am saying you may have to compete for a guy you want. If you have "too many options" there really isn't a problem.

[Asker]

Oh I see. Well, he’s said that he basically isn’t interested in her and doesn’t want her. I don’t get what I have to do with that.