Italianbro, your russianbro says cheers you for such an awesome reply. I need to surround myself with people like you 'cause I looooove competition. I am usually the one who talks to the girls. The only problem is that once I like a girl, my confidence just disappears. I applaud you for what you've done at cafeteria. That gets you 10/10 points from me. I already got the girl's number but man I hate texting. What if she already started seeing someone? Also, do you text or call girls?
I wouldn't worry about it if she started seeing someone. If she tells you "hey, I have a boyfriend.", "I am dating someone right now" then obviously she is trying to make it clear that she isn't into you. However, if she is talking to you and never brings up a boyfriend then just go for it. The text and call issue... when getting a girls number I try to figure her out.
I actually can use a recent example. I got her number and playfully said "Hey, so if I call this number your going to pick up?", She said "Do you think I am one of those girls who just gives out her number just to get rid of the guy?". meanwhile I am calling her right there, I put the phone to my ear and she said "I can feel my phone vibrating..." I replied with "hold on one second I am on the phone *in a playful way*". After she didn't pick up but told me I should just text her.
Bud I think you just hit the nail in the head! Best answer so far! Man I wanna friendlist you. Too bad you are anonymous!
Yeah. I was in particular reacting to the comment by Twincapersred and the Anon just above her. Terrible, terrible advice. If you're only flirting with one girl you come off as a loser who has no options. It's NOT attractive. If you always have attractive girls smiling around you, you're something special worth her time. I like what MissH wrote. She's spot on. Demonstrate you're a man among boys and you'll be good to go.
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