I love when other guys go for girls that I want. It makes me smile when they realize they have no chance and I am the better man. My confidence is obvious and guys envy me because of it. Girls love confident guys and what helps is I am attractive and entertaining. What I do is when I find an attractive girl I will walk right up to her. I will speak loud and clear, I want her to know that when I speak I say things confidently. I also want every single guy in a 20 meter radius to know that I am flirting with this girl.
I always flirt and make it obvious, this will turn away the competition. Guys will think that they have no chance and back out. You have to get her number ASAP! Stop with the small talk in class, compliment her looks and get her number. I like to compliment girls because it tells them that you find them attractive and your not looking for a friendship. A compliment make a girl feel good. So even if you fail you should be happy that you made that girl feel good.
For example, this Monday I was walking around my college campus. It's a community college so there isn't any dorms. The only time there are people walking around is when a class lets out. I spotted a girl and B lined it to her. There were a few guys and other girls who were walking around her but she was basically alone. The people around her were probably classmates that got let out the same time.
I started the conversation with "Hey, what's your name?" I introduced myself and told her that I thought she was adorable. We talked for 2-3 minutes and I got her number. I have been hanging out with her and talking to her. During our conversations I learned that not many guys go up to her and hit on her. She was shocked that I did and she told me that she was having a terrible day. However, when I flirted with her it turned her whole day around.
Another example was in the cafeteria at my school. There was a cute girl sitting with a guy. I walked over to her and introduced myself. I told her I thought she was cute, and then asked her if this guy was her boyfriend. She replied with NO and I continued to talk to her. The guy she was with didn't talk and seemed like a loser. He basically let me walk over him and didn't stand up for himself. There was no doubt in my mind that this guy wanted this girl. The girl was really sexy and he was probably shocked that in less then 3 minutes I got her number and basically set the mood. I stole the show and I didn't let the possibility that he could of been her boyfriend stop me. You have to approach this girl and say what you want. let the other guys hear and be a MAN!
I'm going to disagree with some of the advice on here. You don't win any points by telling a girl you like her. That's not going to make her like you. Think about it this way: if a fat ugly chick told you she liked you, would it make you interested in her? No--probably not. Same thing here. She needs to be into you before she's going to give a crap what you think of her.
Next off, convincing her that you have great "boyfriend" qualities isn't the right place to start either. Just because you're a "good guy" and care about her and blah blah blah, doesn't mean she's going to be into you. FIRST she needs to be ATTRACTED to you. That means you need to come off as the kind of confident, fun, funny, strong guy that she could see herself with in a SEXUAL way. She has to have SOME level of sexual attraction to you (which for girls is more about you having the right personality characteristics than it is for us) FIRST and THEN she'll be open to a date.
So, your goal is to get her attracted to you, get her to go out on a date with you, get her to kiss you, and then you need to lead her to sex. Once you're there, it'll be a lot easier to fend off the other guys vying for her. Good luck!
the best advice I can give you is know how she is about this kind of stuff.
some girls are eh about a guy till they see he might move on and it makes them act but some as soon as you start acting interested in someone else they will write you off cause you werent serious about them or you wouldn't be trying to date other girls while talking to her.
Act like a real man and show her you're a better choice (: You can take her on a adventure trip or something special and get her excited because women are more likely to be attracted to someone when they are excited. Or you can do something really romantic... End the kiss her. Then she'll have to decide immediately if she wants you to be more or not.
Out and out tell her you like her and you want to date her, don't beat around the bush(pardon the pun)
You'll be the only guy to have the balls to actually say what you feel and what you want I bet
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Easiest way is to make her believe that YOU are the one with choices. Women go crazy when they realize a guy was attracted to them but suddenly seems more interested by someone else coming in the picture that might be chasing them. Women are very competitive, and that stupid strategy is much more effective and require much less work than competing like a dumbass for her. Because then she's NOT in the driver's seat.
Supply and demand theory, applied to relationships.
Take her out, act charming. C'mon, I'll take the honest, sweet, calm guy before I take the one's that are just "hitting" on me. Stand out from the rest.
charm her, make her laugh
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