Search Results: how to act on a first date

How to handle my cute, playful but mean boyfriend?

I am an over sensitive girl and easy to become moody. At first, I met my boyfriend, he is a happy and playful guy who always being funny and teasing in a cute way. He often ask me why so serious and told me the need to be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are men really this way? He tried to make me sound stupid when I have proof of things?

There was this guy. We went on one date. We never spoke again. The first date was just fine. The guy told me he felt chemistry with me the time he came back. He drunk added me back on a form of social media. We thought...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Was I worse than the guy who was a jerk to me?

My plan was to continue dating guys for weeks or months and then ditch them, never develop feelings for them, avoid serious topics, etc. I used to ghost some online guys after a while and even gave a false address and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Using co-parenting as an excuse to spend personal time with the "EX". Insecurity or disrespect?

There is a HUGE difference between co-parenting and being in a relationship with the person that you share children with. Co-parenting: is when two parents that share a child/children together is only concerned for...

Cherrylicious

Yoda Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

I know plenty of Men... (Player Version)

Dear G@Gers ! I knew that there will be requests after the last MyTake I know plenty of Women ... (Money Version) And I want to make things clear, I'm a feminist, but i'm not a radical extremist (Being radical in general...

natured

Editor Age: 37

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4 days no contact?

So me and this are 1.5 months in. He lives in Florida and I live in nyc. I travel frequently to Florida because im going to move there next year. So its basically a long distance relationship. he's 27 im 23 This year...

JuliCadavid

Xper 5 Age: 28

What are the chances of a girl changing her mind about guy she initially doesn’t find attractive?

One thing about being a guy is we usually have our minds made up within 30 seconds of meeting a girl if we are interested in her or not. I have met some “borderline” girls that I considered dating if their personalities...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Home Chats

The True Origin and Intent of the Term 'INCEL'

Okay, so I came across another #INCEL question (this one asked by a presumably self-labelled INCEL, but it was not specified), and frankly, the responses prompted this take. Some things need to be clarified. Let me first...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Why would a guy say he wants to be casual and sometimes act like he’s in a relationship - it’s confusing?

He says he wants to be casual and yet he knows I’m a virgin and I’m not willing to just have sex straight off the bat with him. I asked him whether it mattered and he said it doesn’t and that he respects my decision. So...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I act like kids?

I’m in a long distance relationship and I never meet my boyfriend we been talking for 2months then he offer to pay me to be his girlfriend and now I been with him for 3 months our age gaps is 14 years. One day I said I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl accepted a date with me but arranging the date isn't working?

Basically, this girl said she wanted to go on a date with me (specifically hiking) and said she is available on Saturdays. She is a live in maid and is busy the rest of the week. I responded that I can do any day but...

Donrei

Xper 3 Age: 26

Do guys normally do this with female friends?

This happened around February My guy friend told me he gotten a new girlfriend, at first I was super happy for him and also not surprised bc he’s very attractive, he told me about his date with her and I was super...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it normal for a boyfriend to not act like a gentleman towards his girlfriend?

My boyfriend wants to be in charge of everything and be the alpha of the relationship. Not just the relationship, but he's the manager at his job and acts like that too. Before we dated he was nice and was super polite. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is guy acting weird by blocking you after sex?

I am new to the USA. I met a guy on tinder 5 years younger. He texted me and suggested a spontaneous meeting. We switched to watsapp & met in several hours, spent the rest of the day together. It was a cool day, at the...

t-insomnia

Xper 4 Age: 41

First date with an ex. Is it normal for it to be a little weird with awkward silences?

We met up for a few hours. Sexual chemistry was still there but it seems like the talking part was what felt awkward. Like we didn’t know how to talk again... my mind went blank and I didn’t know what to fill him in on,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do any guys out there like reserved women? I feel like it’s ruining all my relationships and I don’t know if it’s me or choosing the wrong guys?

I’m 26. I’ve gotten this my whole life. Now I have had plenty of suitors... I have no problem attracting men, that isn’t the issue... it’s when we have seen each other for awhile (2-3 months) they get so frustrated with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why Do Some Men Seem More Attractive Than Others To Women?

Is it because the guy is more confident? Or is it because he is more “alpha?” I’m going to say that it is neither of these things. Being more confident can lead a person to be overly confident and becoming cocky to the...

Knighted2170

Yoda Age: 55

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Society & Politics

If society trained women to separate emotion from logic (like how it does to men) do you think women would behave differently. Could they handle it?

Let me start of by saying that there are plenty of men out there who can’t control their emotions and plenty of women who can. When I was much younger I was the type to wear my heart on my sleeve. It took years of...

Anonymous

(36-45)