I know plenty of Men... (Player Version)

[natured]

Dear G@Gers !

I knew that there will be requests after the last MyTake

I know plenty of Women ... (Money Version)

And I want to make things clear, I'm a feminist, but i'm not a radical extremist (Being radical in general is bad, yikes)

Feminism is whatever one wants it to be, as long as they do not exaggerate and bring HATE upon the opposite gender. Also because the opposite gender deserves just as much respect and love. PURE ENDLESS LOVE !!

Women in general challange the assumption that men are naturally, voraciously promiscuous.

My previous article made it clear that my goal is basically to go beyond the stereotypes in general.

I would like to address this to Women that are convinced that ALL MEN ARE THE SAME, they put their foot down and swear to everything they own that this is a basic actuality, that "boys will be boys". Many of them even got hurt just once "a little" and then they already think they own the right to judge ALL OF THEM.

I mean c'mon girl...

Well, no my dear fellow Ladies, who even gives you the right to presume such BS...Would you like it when somebody calls you a "GOLD DIGGER" when you're not? Yeah I thought so....

So let's quit this, let's open our minds, we're in the 21st century for goodness sake.

BREATHE IN

...

BREATHE OUT

And let's go

yum

• I know plenty of Men that put their Woman first;
• I know plenty of Men that never cheated and won't cheat because they strongly believe in loyalty;
• I know plenty of Men that believe in love at first sight;
• I know plenty of Men that HATE casanovas and the iedeas of being one;
• I know plenty of Men that don't flirt with random women while being in a relationship;
• I know plenty of Men that don't even flirt while being single;
• HELL I EVEN KNOW PLENTY OF MEN THAT DON'T LIE !!!
• I know plenty of Men that don't look at other women in sexual ways;
• I know plenty of Men that actually notice your new hair cut or new pair of shoes;
• I know plenty of Men that would actually say no to his friends just to bring you out on a romantic date;

I DO KNOW SO MANY MEN THAT ACTUALLY TREAT THEIR WOMEN GREAT !!! (mine does what about yours ? ) ...

• I know so many MEN that ain't PLAYERS

The casanova complex may be culturally pervasive but it does not stand up to reality. This does not mean that there aren't MEN that cheat and that do not respect all of the above... But my point is yet again about GENERALIZING ....

Yes, men might hook up, as do Women for that matter - but they can also be relationship-oriented at the same damn time. YES it's possible, WHY? Because this is the beauty if diversity, the beauty of being HUMAN, we all want things that makes US who we really are, and NO CHOICE should be judged, sometimes we don't even make sense to ourselves yet we do it.... ADMIT IT !!!!!!

On the other hand, being in a toxic relationship is something else that has nothing to do with this MyTake, because I know you will come at me with this.

A lot are convinced that Men were evolutionary programmed to seek out as many partners as possible in order to maximize their chances of reproductive success.... and trust me there are MEN that are convinced of this and hop from one partner to another to feel complete, again as do Women.

Again... who I'm I to judge?

I want you to understand that generalizing is for weak people, because they have to generalize in order to act adaptively. You want to adapt on a discussion or you want to convince yourself of something because "HE or SHE" said it and you want to adapt to that mindset. And to me, it's weak, it's ignorant, in reality it's stupid.

To me, people that generalize have a black & white mental vision, they don't see all the different colors around them, when it's actually really easy to see and enjoy the diversity in life....

It saddens me, and I hope that some of you will think about this, even if 100 people read this and 1 changes his or her mind it is still some huge establishment.

Start to change the world by starting with your self and your choice of words.

Remember, words are powerful !!!!

Have a great weekend you all.

Love

-D-

[Clarke498]

I know plenty of Men that put their Woman firstI'm trying to get better at it. I know plenty of Men that never cheated and won't cheat because they strongly believe in loyalty✅I know plenty of Men that believe in love at first sightWell, sorta. I know plenty of Men that HATE casanovas and the iedeas of being oneUnsure what this means 😅I know plenty of Men that don't flirt with random women while being in a relationshipYeah seems inhonest and ultimately pointless. I know plenty of Men that don't even flirt while being singleLol, got me there. HELL I EVEN KNOW PLENTY OF MEN THAT DON'T LIE !!! Well i try not to, but every now and then... I know plenty of Men that don't look at other women in sexual waysWe're still wired in a certain way and it's hard to stop that. It's acting on it where the problems come up. I know plenty of Men that actually notice your new hair cut or new pair of shoesDepends how drastic it is in my opinion. I know plenty of Men that would actually say no to his friends just to bring you out on a romantic dateSure i would do that! Mostly because i don't think i would be dating a girl unless i found her to be more fun to be around than my friends anyway. I like takes like these that call out the bs notion that one gender is one stereotypic thing. It's all over this site and i hate it.

[natured]

Thank you for actually reading and understanding, and if you have anything to add feel free to do so, I want everyone to know that MEN AREN'T PIGS like many women portrey them to be. Yet if you read the comments here men don't seem to apprecate this... It's sad
I appreciate that you actually read the whole thing , I never said that men have to portray all of the above, but I wanted to show Women that THERE ARE MEN that actually are GOOD and are worth dating and loving...

[Clarke498]

Yes, and om very grateful. I hate the questions on this site trying to push everyone into the same boxes

I see that my comment is a bit of a mess when it comes to spacing though. When i posted it it looked a lot more structured.

[Nomie22]

He has lost weight? ↗

Can you please answer this?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I agree with you💯... Sad though that there's too many bitter men and women that rather stay in their bitter biased beliefs than admit they might be wrong for generalizing or stereotyping a whole gender instead of by the individual... My second husband was a great man, a great father.. My first husband was a jealous controlling, physically abusive man... Yet did I let that bitter me to all men or label all men that way,? No cuz not only would that have been really stupid/closeminded of me, I would of never had the 20 years I had with my husband, my two beautiful daughters and my precious grandson... But this generation, it's easier to put the blame on others, than to accept any responsibility for themselves.. Great take!! I get tired of the posts/takes that are just meant to bash/belittle the opposite gender whether it's a man doing it about women or a woman doing it about men... There's great men and women or there.. And there's bad men/women out there... Don't blame all men for the actions of one man that hurt you or don't blame all women for what one has done... Again, nice to see some people still have brains and common sense 💛💛👍... Wish more did 🙄

[natured]

Your comment made me so happy, it makes me feel less alone, I'm so glad that there are people that actually PROCESS THEIR THOUGHTS and have a great mindset in general. I love open minded women like you and i noticed most of your comments lately (i usually never remember people but i'm remembering you) and they leave me speechless.
Thank you Queen

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Hardly a queen🤣 but thank you💛🤗

[natured]

Pff don't fight with me on this one you know my debate game is strong
Cheers

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Lololol🤣 okay then lol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Thanks for mh💛😊

[natured]

<3 yvw

[bamesjond0069]

Girls who seem to only meet fuck boys are having this problem because they are presenting as ideal for fuck boys and not attractive to relationship oriented men. And/or they only choose fuck boys. Either way this further scares off relationship oriented men.

The same man is a fuck boy and relationship oriented as well. Thats me. If i date a girl and she seems like a slut. Ill gladly fuck her but i won't date her. If she seems like a good girl ill be more focused on dating her. These girls are basically coming off like sluts and wondering why the awesome guys are passing through without locking it down. Men dont want to wife a slut. Its that simple.

[bamesjond0069]

@Nomie22 no thanks

[Nomie22]

Go away

[Alejandro3000]

Lol funny how women had to become feminists to feel smarter but still get fooled by the "pheno'men'on" that is players. Its the mindset that you expect more than a guy can give so you end up with exactly what you didn't want. Go in with the right price and you get that or thereabouts. And sorry I couldn't read all of what you said although it was probably a good read all throughout, I haven't got a good attention span. You should just be glad I can read and write ☺️

[natured]

Thank you for commenting but I'd rather read til the end to understand the point of it. You don't become a feminist, it's a natural instict that comes with going through something that only women went through... Again I appreciate it

[Alejandro3000]

Sorry I don't want to drag myself into a discussion of feminism. What it is now is toxic to women they develop irritation to men that harms the essence of how you percieve us, before that they were innocent learning from their mums and dads and ok somewhat confused by such things as Disney cartoons but the natural way to be is not think all men are the same sex driven Neanderthals and to avoid pollution of the mind from influencers. Feminism in its current form is not what it was set up to be (ie recognition and awareness of gender inequality in the wider world). I know a girl who between 20-24 after she went to university caused serious damage to herself by listening to feminists, then I saw another do the same. Those 2 did not excel in their careers. Had they focused purely on their own education it would have been different. And finally men go through more struggles than women, that's why women outlive their husbands. You must key points. My career is in population health, so you're discussing ideologies with someone who knows the facts. I also look at inequalities. It's important to understand not to see men as a threat.

[natured]

Okay so i literallt used that word ONCE to only have a start up for this article, the whole freaking MyTake had nothing to do with ME BEING A FEMINIST. Would you please read the article before commeting any further. I do agree with you but you are literally writing nonesense because it is not concerning this topic.
I'm here SHOWING YOU MEN SOME LOVE and this is how you respond? Seriously?
This only makes me think that NOTHING will ever satisfy you people.
WHEN I SAY THEY ARE THE SAME you get mad
WHEN IS AY THEY ARE NOT THE SAME you get mad
WHEN I SAY WE SHOULD RESPECT MEN you get mad
WHEN I SAY WE SHOULD TREAT THEM BADLY you get mad
SERIOUSLY, it's time for you to decide what you even want.
I'm overly done here

[Alejandro3000]

🤐🤐🤐

[oddwaffle]

I don't think the problem is that some man can and will cheat while some don't, the problem is that women tend to like the lying type.

It's not their fault. The cheating man will cheat to look better than the average guy. He will look like prince charming from the inside out. Inexperienced women and hapless girls will fall for him. Then he will dump them and they grow bitter.

[dray995]

That’s nice but these kinds of guys don’t usually get the girl because lots of women say they want these types of guys but in the end they go for the bad boys because they’re more sociable and know how to act around women. So telling people this stuff doesn’t really help much……
What’s the point? That not all guys are bad?

[natured]

Sigh, again this "bad Boy" thing really? I think you all watch too many movies, what even is a bad boy? WHat if my man has all of the above but is a bad boy in the sheets though? SERIOUSLY WAKE UP !

[dray995]

The bad boy types are the guys that ignore women and mistreat them but somehow still manage to get the women just to use them and then move onto the next willing woman with no thought. They’re the players and the master manipulators of women. They know how to use women to get what they want from them, which is usually just sex. Those are the bad boys I’m talking about. What about the average guy that doesn’t do that. How does he get the woman?

[natured]

To be honest I never dated a bad boy because i never had the intention to get hurt by some maniac, also because i have A LOT OF RESPECT for myself to let myself fall in love with a prick like that. And i did have a chance trust me, because I do turn heads, I do have charm and i've been told that im cute looking, yes bad boys have tried their way but they turn me off... and they turn SO MANY OTHER WOMEN OFF...

[clampfan101]

I check almost all the boxes for this, if not all. Just three things worth mentioning;
1. I don’t even know what casanovas are. lol
2. No one never lies, but I am a very honest person so I’d say check for that.
3. I don’t have the experience to know how good I’d be at quickly recognizing new things, and have some doubt in my ability to in the future due to having some general memory issues. If I don’t notice however, it will never be because I don’t care.

[Waldoe]

Very well put, I agree with almost every word.. and I am pretty argumentative out of spite... so, Good Job

[natured]

I appreciate it, feel free to add anything if there is something missing, because i'm sure there is more, even though this is just the player version.
Thank you

[Nomie22]

He has lost weight? ↗

Can you please answer this?

[Yourfriend2021]

That's a nice mytake, it's too bad so many men and women try to stereotype each other.

[natured]

It is very sad you are right, I hope we will understand sooner or later. Thank you for reading I appreciate it.

[Yourfriend2021]

You're welcome and thanks. Have a nice day and good luck :)

[LoveIsFake]

At least a girl is defending us because I Sure never seen it

[natured]

I will always defend don't worry

[IDontBelieveIt]

Crikey this is really, really good, thank you for taking the time to write it.👍

[Hxxmx]

Oh this isn't about video games? Lol

3 out of 5 men will possibly be a player ( please don't ask me who did that research)

[Inbox]

Who did that research?

[Hxxmx]

My instincts research agency 😂😂

[zeitgeist057]

7 of 13 statistics are made up on the spot.

[Unbeatable]

Whys all of the positives that a man can have in your list, solely centered around him sacrificing his interests for a womans

[es20490446e]

Those people I don't really care, as I simply don't touch them.

[shadowlunitic03]

As a player,... wait this ain't about video games

*nvm*

[innerman]

I know plenty of men...”
all those traits can’t exist in the one human being. thats bad for society

[Anonymous]

Like i put women above me they are way superior then us in many ways , and i lile that fact

[Alejandro3000]

Crazy boy, most billionaires are men

[Opinion Owner]

I mean i like the dominance of female over man , i am different dude

[Alejandro3000]

they want dominant men and struggle with mental health issues. That's not superior, it's a flaw in their own doing.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok , but i have already own a kink of femdom

[Alejandro3000]

That's not superior is it, that's you allowing them to abuse you for something they experienced by someone else when they were just a child.

[Opinion Owner]

I have kink of that humiliation that turns me on,

[natured]

@Alejandro3000 I think you are deeply hurt or sad, something is bothering you and you have to let it out here...

[Opinion Owner]

Yup @natured i treat women above man , and you are like godess to me , in that sense tbh

[natured]

I don't think you have to treat them ABOVE ANYTHING, we don't need to be treated like that, all we need is understanding , all we need is to be literally not put in a cup of water with the rest of them... we're all different from each other we're not copy pasted robots.

[Opinion Owner]

@natured loved you reply godess , that such pure and honest view. I am honoured with that , thank you

[Alejandro3000]

Ha you must be bonkers, you criticise me and then you yourself find you need to change the view of the opinion owner.

[Still-alive]

Thank you! im not a player although i do love talking to them a lot!

[he-takes-a-part]

May God save you from not being eaten up into all this

[Be4rdy]

Yet women dont like these traits which is funny

[natured]

What if I tell you that we do, it's sad that you don't appreciate this

[Be4rdy]

I find it hard to believe if I'm honest

I'm not the best looking guy so straight away you never get a look in, you like someone and tell then they either ignore it or shove you straight in the friend zone or worse

I've been single 7 years, I sound bitter but I'm not I just dont get women. You want all that but when its offered you dont want it

[Exc3l]

Lol that sucks dude

[natured]

You are being very quick to judge her my friend, my boyfriend is not a supermodel either, and i would not change him for NO HOT DUDE IN THE GLOBE, because I couldn't care less.
It's just very embarrising how you are blaming all of us because of your misery.
You should work on your self esteem, it's unhealthy, you're being to harsh on yourself you should love yourself, life, and everything that comes with it. SCREW LOOKS !!

[Be4rdy]

Turn it round and if this was a female and no guy had looked at her in 7 years she would be better and twisted

If you dont see that then your not getting what I'm going at

I'm quick to judge... yet folk are quick to judge me just on my looks, you talk to people they dont reply... what else can I do?

[Hotboy_booblover]

Love u 2... nice mytake

[Anonymous]

And as usual the Shy Guy doesn't get mentioned.