Are most men "players"?

SoIcyGang
I'm noticing a trend recently. Basically, women saying that most men are nothing but cheaters. And even if a man isn't necessarily cheating, he most likely only views women as opportunities for sex. Thus, most men are bouncing around from woman to woman having sex and leaving those women feeling used and empty.

Which to me is an impossible thing to say. From my perspective as a man, most men simply are not capable of bouncing around woman to woman. Most men are not capable of having multiple partners simultaneously.

I started noticing this trend more and more after talking to my sister about it. Turns out she's in the know about all the red pill vs feminist "debate" going on. She is influenced by these personalities on the internet spewing whatever shit they are spewing. Andrew tate being the most famous of them all.

Since talking to her I am now seeing women online acting as if all men are just flying around having sex with women left right and center.

It's just absurd in my mind. I see very clearly that most men are simply not capable. Most men are not that desirable to women. Most men don't have the skills the self confidence the look the anything, to be running around having sex. Whether cheating, using women or whatever. Most men in my opinion are simply not capable.

But then the question is, how is it possible that women can believe such a thing as most men are having rampant casual sex, when it's so clearly that the opposite is true?

I get the feeling that men that women are not attracted to, are literally just invisible to women. Women don't know that most men are NOT getting around, because most men are invisible to women.

Women see the men they desire getting around, and they are just assuming that all men want what the best men who actually get the women want. And in that sense, the desirable men and the undesirable men are put together into the same category.
Are most men "players"?
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