Many are under the impression that any woman who “throws sex” at a man she barely knows to be “deserving” of the consequences. People thought “only” players and Chad-tier ‘fuckboys’ tried to goad or coerce women into having early or casual sex. They were handsome men that had people thought had obvious red flags. The women who fell for it were just stupid. But it's not just hot ‘assholes’ and out-of-your-league ‘ players. It’s the so-called nice guys and “average” men.
They’re quick to call women “sluts” for having sex with them and even say she “should’ve known better”, but how? These men no longer make it clear they’re only looking for a fling from the get-go anymore. They try to woo women, beg to be given a chance and swear they’re “different” and “not that kind of guy” and pretend to be genuinely interested in a girl, going out of their way to signal their trust-worthiness and stability. Even after sex they'll use sly terms and ambiguous phrasing to keep a girl on the hook; "I think this could be something real", "we'll see where things go", "I'm usually pretty guarded", "I've been burned before", etc.
Why? Most men want sex above all things, it seems ridiculous to me that once sex has been had, it diminishes the woman in their eyes and she becomes relegated to the position of fuckbuddy or fling. Why is it that getting what you want from a woman somehow makes her “less than” in the eyes of many men? It's definitely the biggest shit test of all time. How could you not think someone would fall for what they thought was honest?
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