Do men who pursue woman just for sex and use low effort realise what they’re doing is immoral?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I had this guy ask me out

few days before the date we set up at the movies he offered to hang out spontaneously I accepted, he told me to come to his area (1 hour away) I said I’d prefer he came to my area since he asked me out…

so, he asked me why I told him likely the same reason he asked me to travel there instead of him coming here, it’s far. He asked if I had my own place I told him I didn’t, he said I’m welcome to come to his and stay over, he’ll take the sofa. BARE in mind I have never met this man in my life! And he’s from tinder

told him I had other plans I’m busy and stopped responding. He never texted back after I ignored him and never followed through with the date we originally set up. He seen I was at a bar with a male friend from my social media and immediately sent me a topless photo of his torso at 1am. i ignored him and he blocked me. I just thought to myself does this man think I’m desperate hasn’t he disrespected me enough Lol

[Summeroflove]

I think you made the right move. Someone might have pure enough intentions but I don’t trust people I don’t know either coming to my house or going to someone else’s house.

Some men obviously just use women for sex. Seems like he made plans and wanted to change them last minute which obviously you might not have the kind of time in your schedule to work around.

Sometimes shit happens though and maybe you’ll have to work something out later. If you sent him messages and he’s ignoring you for a long period of time. When you say not responding depends on if you mean 5 minutes or days on end.

Frankly if someone won’t talk to you….. They probably moved on. It’s better to be straightforward with someone. But some people just won’t do that.

I would say move on and find someone else.

[notwoke]

we don't care, the social construct is broken: "Hey, I want the man to pay for everything and I'll demand to make all the decisions and after he pays for a nice life for us, I'll get everything even after I blow the basketball team. Go feminism!!" All that's left of value is your holes

[Sirenboobzilla]

Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't Tinder more of a hookup platform than for dating?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

i guess it can be for a lot of people but I’ve also known people to get relationships from there

[motownplayer2000]

Yeah I don’t constantly pursue women. I’ll ask once and send a message or two. If I get the wrong vibe I’m out. I dont waste my time chasing after women. I’ve got better things to do with my time

[BJP21]

Thats one of the problems with hook up culture. Good for you standing your ground. Tinder is full of sex hounds.

[loveslongnails]

What are you expecting from 22 yr olds on Tinder? Really.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Where else does a shy girl with RBF meet a good man? It’s certainly not the bars, least not the ones I’ve attended

[loveslongnails]

There are better apps than Tinder if you're looking for something other than a fuck or a hook up. Tinder is for fuckboys. Do your research.

[TheFlak38]

A woman is lecturing us about morality. How cute.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I just can’t believe he had the nerve to try to contact me after ignoring our date and basically asking me to come over for a hook up inadvertently. I thought me telling him I was busy and never messaging him again should’ve shown him that I’m not into that

[Fuentes]

Lol we know it's wrong but we don't care we ain't looking for wife's, most girls are not worthy of thar title in today's climate of women.

[TallAnon]

Morals are subjective, everyone has a different image in their head of what's right and wrong

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I think it’s wrong. Don’t you think it was as clear as day that boy was going to waste my time and attempt to get laid

[TallAnon]

Yeah, he 100% just wanted to fuck. But nothing is pure right and wrong, so he might not consider that wrong.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

He may think he doesn’t know me so he doesn’t have to consider how I’d feel or the fact he’s wasting my time however I shown him that I wasn’t going to be easy and play his smash and dash game. There’s certain things you don’t treat as trash. I’m trying to be that !

[spartan55]

@Bekaaaaaaaahhhh
Then you might not want to go looking on Tinder.

[Anonymous]

LOL! Yeah--what was he thinking? Sending a topless photo only works if you're a girl--NOT a guy! :P

[Anonymous]

It isn’t immoral. It’s no different than the majority of women who use men for stuff, money, protection, etc.

[Ocastbury]

Tinder 🤯🤒. Dont worry... were not all like that! 😇

[noohair]

Lucky you never had the date.