Why do some men expect sex from women so early in dating (see details and rant below lmao)?

[nspencer]

I went on the first date with someone (we met on a dating site but not something like tinder) a couple months ago and he hinted at sexual stuff and I didn’t want to. I would say I wasn’t super attracted to him but also didn’t think he was ugly. He seemed respectful then and said he never wanted me to feel pressured. We talked here and there but then met up recently for a second date and honestly it was pretty awkward. The second date he barely spoke in conversation (mostly I was talking) and then we went to a drive in. He said some garbage of how he missed seeing me (guys we hadn’t seen each other for months haha) and then tried going for sexual stuff I said no but he kept insisting even when I said no and I was getting pretty annoyed. Then he kept acting bored the rest of the time🙄 like guys why EXPECT sex from us so soon.. isn’t that somewhat the equivalent of the woman expecting the guy to pay etc? (which annoys men understandably) Honestly I don’t see me going out with him again now I think he has a shitty personality as well as isn’t that attractive. I feel like a guy needs to explicitly say if they only want sex and be hot af and/or be charming if that’s what they are looking for 😅

[Makeushiver]

Sex is not an exclusively male pleasure though from the sound of things ot may well be aince it aounds like - on here atr least,- there are a lot of guys who don't sweem interested in making sure lover has as much pleasure. Weird because wonen are designed to enjoy sex more than men. The clitpris is the only organ humans have that has no other purpose than pleasure. It has about 10x the nerver endingas then guys have on their cocks and are capable of very intense pleasure. Also, wmen are far more likeky to have multiple orgasms than men. If the situation os such that he's having fun and you aren't do aomething bout it. I don't know why so many women are more insterested in giving head than getting t

[Summeroflove]

They want nothing serious just sex. Don't spend time with men like that. If he wants sex too fast or before marriage even... Dump him. There are women who are into that too. You seem like you have good morals.

[LazerBean]

Because there are soany women who will give it to them. When the bar is low, most men are going to aim low.

[Anonymous]

Because women have made casual sex the norm. It is women, not men, who have reset that expectation. But casual sex is indeed the expectation now. Women have made relationships/marriage too costly to men, and sex too cheap. They have shot themselves in the foot so to speak.

[FilmGuy93]

If a guy is pushing for sex so randomly like that, it’s because he didn’t connect with you on any other level.

[Berethor]

There are a lot of hos nowadays, so he might be used to getting sex very soon.

[Anonymous]

Because for a lot of men, sex is the only thing they can offer.

[Anonymous]

Most women give it up all nice and easy anymore. Most girls will f*** you before you even know there first name. So why would a guy wait for desert when he knows another woman will serve it to him right now?

[BJP21]

Sounds like a sex hound who's seen one too many porn fantasies.

[Anonymous]

You are overreacting. Maybe he wasn't your guy, and maybe he was wrong, but that's it.

[nspencer]

Hmm I’m not and pressuring someone for sex when they clearly did want to is a problem.

[Chazmatazz269]

Some people are jerks.

[In_Trance]

for the same reason women do