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Search Results: red flags
Do I take initiative?
I had been seeing a guy for a month and a half, things were going really well calling and texting consistently and we hung out twice. On the second hangout I met his friends and afterwords we were intimate. After that he...
Anonymous
(18-24) What is your opinion on "Single Mothers By Choice"?
I am almost 30 years old, no luck in dating. Over my time, I have realized that MOST married people tend to be married simply because they have low standards. Plenty of people have low standards but just aren't aware of...
Anonymous
(25-29) He’s just a “player”…..
Ah yes, the modern love story. Girl meets boy online. Boy says all the right things. Girl catches feelings. Boy? Oh, he’s already in five other DMs, copy-pasting the same “good morning beautiful” text like it’s a full...
Is it still worth trying?
Most girls are like this on dating apps. It’s good that at least they are being honest and screaming they are a red flag. But this is what all pretty girls are like - just fake and superficial. Plus why would you even...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
He tried to sleep w me first date. Red flag?
So I went on a date w a guy and it was supposed to be grabbing food but I wasn’t hungry so it was a drive but he taken me to this car park spot and we spoke for ages and then he kept trying to hook up w me in his car even...
Brunettexoxo
Xper 5 Age: 25 Boyfriend tries to set me up?
I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We went to a convention and day before he told me his female friend would be at the convention. He introduces but she is wearing this revealing cosplay her breasts spilling out and...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, Would it be a red flag for you if you met a woman in her 30s and she's never had a serious relationship?
She's very attractive. Dated a few guys before but never actually been in a relationship and is quite inexperienced when it comes to relationships.
beenherebefore
Yoda Age: 36 Is this a red flag situation?
This guy that works with me we started off as friends with benefits but were really good friends and we stop doing that because he went back to his ex and got married and I just been feeling like off ever since he told me...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do people date single mothers or fathers?
you are doing all the work raising someone's child. yet these kids will never see you as their number 1 father in their lives. they will always see their biological father as first priority. It does not matter how much...
Anonymous
(25-29) What are some slang terms or phrases that you hate or find annoying because of its overuse?
For me, it's- Red flag FOMO NPC Incel Simp Ick Demure Unalive Sneaky link I know there is more but those are the ones I find on social media the most that has become overused.
Guys, Would you care if a young woman you liked on a dating app had a child, is it a deal breaker?
I'm a guy; I use dating apps on the side to find someone. I've noticed young women in their 30s have liked my profile lately, but I see that they are divorced and have a child. I don't want to be completely judgmental...
Anonymous
(30-35) 
Is it a red flag if we've been together for 10 years and still not married?
We’ve built a life together, but there’s still no ring, no solid plans. Every time I bring it up, the topic gets brushed off. At what point does “we’re just taking our time” turn into “they’re never going to commit”? How...
Anonymous
(36-45) Husband has intrusive thought to unalive me—should I be worried?
Sooo…. There are a lot of red flags in our relationship in general and I know I could hardly be a reliable source as a participant in this relationship… but… I guess I’m wondering if I’m overthinking this one or seeing...
Anonymous
(25-29) Need an honest outside perspective: am I overreacting or finally seeing things clearly?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. We had a recent fight over something small (splitting cost of beer), and he taunted me saying, “This is why I don’t take you anywhere to hang around” I got visibly upset and...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do women know men like pure women?
Most girls have a past. Why couldn’t they just pick well in the beginning? I get relationships are complicated but they go for red flags 🚩or ignore them and wonder why they got what they deserved? Going after the bad boy...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it a Red Flag that a guy fron a dating app used WhatsApp?
I've now talked to 2 guys who wanted to chat in WhatsApp. Why? I find it odd and one of them i assumed might be a Bot, when I asked they got upset and unmatched me 🤣
Anonymous
(36-45) Is being 26 and still a virgin and never having a boyfriend a red flag?
If you went on a date and a girl said she had no experience beyond a kiss and she had no friends also, what would you think? I have really bad social anxiety and I feel like if I had experience it would make people more...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is this a red flag?
A guy I have been talking to told me he and his ex had been together for 9 years before they had a long break up and saw other people but even then they stayed involved with each other every year even after the break up....
Anonymous
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thegreenyogi
Guru Age: 35 