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Need some clarification. I really really like this guy and I need to get my head on straight before I get in too deep (I'm already kinda in deep).

Questions: Am I just a booty call? Should I just chill and see what happens? Is there a potential that this guy is into me but he is uncertain of how he feels based on his past? Should I be concerned?

Ok the situation is like this and I'm going to lay out all the details:
-met on a dating app 3 months ago -spoke for 1 month prior to meeting, everyday all day. This pattern has continued for the past 3+ months
-had great first date, I think great chemistry since then
-didn't kiss til the 3rd date
-on 5th date he told me he was 6 months out of a broken engagement where the girl broke up with him because she wasn't really in love with him. Stated at that time he wasn't looking for a relationship becasue he is so new off the breakup but he could see himself liking me and thats why he wanted to be upfront and honest with me. Supporting evidence he gave was "I was the first girl he met up with from his online dating profiles and the dating app", "he enjoys spending time with me".
-he is very busy with law school
-I am busy with my career (pharmacist)
-Since sleeping together for the first time (~4 weeks ago) we haven't gone on a date. Its been mostly netflix and chill kinda deal. We both kinda chalk it up to our busy schedules (Him law school me with work)
-We have great sexual chemistry
-We share the same values
-Despite not going on formal "dates" for the past 4 weeks we still continue to talk throughout the day. Conversation includes how our days are going, gibber gabber etc. We are always laughing and joking with eachother

Hi, I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18. When we first started dating I knew he smoked weed. Where I live we aren't really taught what happens when u r high and how it affects u. I have tried to research it but everything I look up I feel is opinion based. I am aware that a state or two Js legalized it though. Please note I do feel terrible for making him chose me or weed but also please understand why I made him. On Halloween I was out of town so he went to a party by himself. After the party him and a couple friends went to his house (Girls and guys). He told me nothing was going to happen (no drinking or smoking). I then find a lighter in his basement a couple weeks later and made him confess. When he's high he ignores me and what not as well. I made him chose me or thag bc he lied about it and in our relationship we don't keep secrets. I did though at the start of December say he can have a few drinks with friends just hanging out and that he can go to parties when he gets to collage. He said though he would rather smoke then drink. He says smoking has a better affect and it's not harmful. He also says it doesn't make you do stupid stuff it just relaxes you. He brings it up once in a while and so today I decided I'll really think about. Please realize I made him promise not to do this in the spur of the moment as well. I feel like when he smokes I feel like he hides stuff from me and what not. So like I said please no hate. I don't know much about weed. I want to only do what's best for our relationship bc I love him a lot. If you guys also have had smoke weed before please tell me how you felt and what not as well.! I'd love to know! Please again just no hate I did what I think was best and now I'm finally open to hear/read other people's opinions on what I should do. Please note that breaking up isn't a option bc I do honestly love him. Thank you so much for your time and I hope you have a great day! Ps. He only smokes it he says a couple times a year!