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So i'm currently bring courted by 2 guys and i'm haing a hard time choosing. So guy 1 he's sweet and nice and he really smellls nice not that thats important and he goes above and beyond to do stuff for me sounds perfect right but there is a minor flaw when we're kissing and making out in his car and clothes starts coming off, i stop him when he goes to my jeans but then he says he wants me to be more comfortable and he won't try t put it in but he does anyways after saying that. He pampers me and says he loves me and all that but thats the only issue i have with him. Guy 2 is a bit different yeah i feel like i can be a couch potato around him and not care how i look (idc with guy one either). But he's really big on consent and he asks before he does stuff he doesn't just do it guessing that i might be okay with it and he's also really sweet and we can talk for hours on end and it isn't just a one sided conversation we both each other time to talk and it just just feels comfortable being together and he's also not big on pda just like i am, guy number 1 i don't think he even wants us to be seen together with anyone he knows and most of his friends are married or he's ashamed or something guy 2 doesn't mind holding my hand at all in public or whatever. Our dates take place in open places, Guy 2 doesn't even want to bring me outside at all or he rents rooms for us to hang out or we hang out in his car or stuff i think he feels like he's doing it for my sake when he's not. And he doesn't give up the chance to show how much money he has and always offers to buy me stuff even after i've told him how uncomfortable it makes me. Second guy asks if i say no thats the end of the discussion. its not that i like guy 2 more i just feel like he gets me more. respects my decision more even.

I started a new job and have found out quickly the reason people quit is because is environment is horrendous. It is mostly coming from one woman who has been there for over 40 years. She is knowledgeable about her job but such a bitchy and mean person. I am stuck with this woman directly as I am working along side her. She constantly tries to put blame on me for things that happened even before I got there. My workload is piling up because she is passing her work onto me.

Not only calling other members of staff, c*nts, pr*cks, stupid b*tches. She started referring to the black people in our office as monkeys and other vicious remarks. Now first I thought I misheard but she said numerous times on Friday and I have not stopped thinking about it all weekend. I have already started applying for new jobs so hope to be out of there soon. Should I tell my other colleagues what has happened and the two girls in HR are the ones she is directing her hate at the most, so I feel I can’t even go to them. And the boss who has only been there 5 year walks on eggshells around this woman cause of the time she has been there. I would have stayed in this job if it was not for this woman. What should I do?