Was he purposely try to make me fall and did he want to cuddle?

[theresyourgravy]

Chris is a guy, who i’ve never talked to. Yet I find myself seeing him on a daily basis. I was chilling in the lobby. He comes down with people and he gets the remote to look for scary movies. Reminder he’s sitting far on the other side of me. So after a good 10 minutes of him searching and me being on my phone, not a single word shared between us. I look up to see him staring at me all shy like, and then i smile at him because i’m nice. and he starts looking down and smiling. ten seconds later, he just gets up and sits beside me. Then he says in a whiny voice “someone cuddle with me” and then 10 seconds later he’s cuddling with his friend. Then after a hour of the movie, i get up to leave and he’s like “you’re heading up?” and i’m like yeah. My friends keep saying he likes me because of that one interaction but after that night he’s acted pretty normal towards me (still not talking, but he’s not shy or blushing around me) plus it’s a known thing that he he’s only into Asian girls and i’m very much black. (my profile picture is not me). Also I just saw him again and he was with two friends, as we walked past. He jumps on his skate board and i almost fell over. Does that one movie night situation mean anything or do you have a feeling on why his behavior was the way it was?

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+1 y

Imagine he was trying to make me fall because I didn’t cuddle him

[Curiosity2006]

Absolutely, he obviously was into you at that horror movies' session XP Was this at school by any chance? Also about the skateboard, he could've been showing off his skills to impress you. It really depends on how he performed it, were you hit by his board?

[RHK36]

It was in the moment and that moment has passed. Very unlikely that he's thinking about you. Guys are pretty straightforward with who they like. If he's trying to be all in your business and spends time on you then most likely he likes you. If he ain't then it's not that serious.

[SnowedIn]

I am ambivalent about the trying to fall. Not sure there. BUT... yes, he wanted to cuddle and yes he's interested in you.

[theresyourgravy]

Now I feel bad for not cuddling him 😭

[SnowedIn]

nah... don't feel bad. But, you have an opportunity now! :)

[theresyourgravy]

yeah but i’m too scared to ask

[SnowedIn]

Take comfort in the fact that from where I sit, so's he. But, maybe, just coffee? Or sit next to him in the lobby and use the cringey but it works "Hey!". Something simple to start a conversation. Or take his skate board. That'll get him talking to you!

[bunnyboo364]

It sounds to me like he has interest in you.

[theresyourgravy]

Possibly I don't know

[CrisFantazyNFury]

@bunnyboo364
@theresyourgravy
do any of you give advice?

[Stevefiveo]

Yeah, hard to say if he was wanted a cuddle from you or his friend. Kinda immature to be whiny and say I need a cuddle, in my opinion. It is something a toddler would say, not a man.

[theresyourgravy]

Yeah he’s really whiny a lot and the guys in the group treat him like the baby of the group.

[Stevefiveo]

Doesn't sound good.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, sounds like he is interested in you

[theresyourgravy]

Even if he says he’s just into Asian girls?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Hard to say people do change from time to time, believe me

[Sparkie460]

It sure seems like he's interested in you but too shy to say anything. I think he was hoping that you would cuddle with him

[theresyourgravy]

I should’ve said yes too, but the rest of the people there were guys and they probably would’ve thought I was into him. Also I was thinking he meant to cuddle them since the guys are affectionate towards each other

[Sparkie460]

Were you the only girl there

[Sparkie460]

That's pretty weird if two guys cuddled

[theresyourgravy]

Yeah I was the only girl there

[Sparkie460]

Do you like him

[theresyourgravy]

i mean i can’t say i like him since i never really talked to him but he’s attractive and adorable

[Sparkie460]

It's not uncommon that the woman approaches the guy. You should talk to him

[Sparkie460]

Regarding update, I don't think he would intentionally try to make you fall

[Yellovv]

Maybe he thinking you are playing with him...

[theresyourgravy]

Wait whyyy

[Yellovv]

Because girls doing that, they are sometimes kidding guys

[theresyourgravy]

Awe I hope he doesn’t think that

[Yellovv]

Are you more social than him?

[theresyourgravy]

no he’s more social than me, like we’re in the same friend group but we don’t talk to each other

[Yellovv]

I mean are you more active (personality)?

[OlderAndWiser]

Sounds like he wanted your attention but may have been disappointed by your non-reaction.

[dean53AU]

Sounds to me that he likes you a lot

[theresyourgravy]

Should I give him a compliment?

[dean53AU]

Go ahead, see what happens ☺️

[DrewJohnson]

It definitely seems like he's into you.

[theresyourgravy]

See the thing is I wouldn’t even mind dating him or anything but he’s one of the guys who says his intrusive thoughts and they aren’t always good

[DrewJohnson]

Well sometimes our verbal filters are broken around pretty girls.

[theresyourgravy]

He says stuff like “damn her titties are huge” while watching a movie

[CrisFantazyNFury]

Yes, I think he is totally into you!

[theresyourgravy]

I love that he also tried to kill me

[theresyourgravy]

Just kidding!! But that actually brings a smile to my face awee

[CrisFantazyNFury]

Awesome! :) well let me know if you wanna answer some of my questions
or give some advice :)

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t think he likes you

[larry69]

Definitely interested in you. Just be careful

[User3191989]

No, sorry