Can anyone help me with a answer to this?

[Anonymous]

i broje up with my ex on January cause he cheated on me we stayed frienfds after it everything was going ok still some arguments because he moaned at me for accidently dropping a ashtray or my brush or the way i sat on his bed now how pathetic is that and he had a girlfriend after me the one he was cheating on me with and we slept together a good few times even as we where friends my family said your just a side peace incase this one fails he's going with then i knew the right thing was to get away because he was a sick cunt i really did in a way hate his guts but still liked him to buf new i was being so stupid still sleeping with him then all of a sudden he ended up with another girl behind this ones back he was dru k one time i text snd said where are you he said am at ma girlfriend a can't say her name on this site a said what ure going with another one next day he said how did you know about can't say her name a said you told me he went aw a was drunk not true a said a canny really beileve some things you tell me nowafter all your lies so now later in the past 2 months November & decber he's been lying saying hd gonny csll never does says am aloud to visig always chabges his mind obv he doesn't need me snymore when he's got 2 but the main think can you help me figure out is i know i should get tae fuck away from him he's causing the stress with lies he only makes me angry can anyone tell me why iam not able to block him without feeling sad even though i know he's a rat basterd why can't i just block him with courage its hard any info to what u think mite be going on am very confused to figure out what does it sound like wgy can't i just be brave and block him without feeling bad even though i know it would be better for me?

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[NewYorkCity]

Why, because you still haven't gotten to a point where he physically and financially hurts you. Right now whether you want to admit it or not, but it is just an emotional game for you and you enjoy this drama, but your emotional game and drama enjoyment will end real quick and you will wise up real fast, ones you start feeling your physical bank account going down and your physical body being compromised (unwanted pregnancy) and father of your child will disappear and run away, faster than a prisoner who just escaped prison.

[Asker]

he has hurt me terrible discrace i know getting away from this rat will stop me from being angry upset i can't have kids i got a implant tube in my arm he's evil he has physically hurt me ges hit me i have hit him back so your saying i enjoy what he's doing i hate it what he's doing he's evil i dont enjoy a life like this at all fuck that but i dont enjoy it thats way wrong i dont wanna sit still being upset i can garuntee u iam not enjoying this one bit i know my life will bd a pike of shit if i continue to remain speaking to him why would i enjoy someone that hit me iam just to confused to understand why a strong girl like me can't just block this basterd without grieving a few days afterwards

[NewYorkCity]

If you really, like really Really REALLY hated him the way you are describing to us, you would of stopped talking to him loooong time ago. From your both original question and now this comment, I can confidently conclude that you still have a certain feeling or some kind of interest in him, that is the only and I mean like ONLY reason why you cut off 99% of all the stings with him, but still keeping 1%. And what that 1% sting is, only you know and YOU know and you know that you know too. Whatever you are trying to get from this forum you won't get, because not one single person here knows the guy who you were dating, so it is quite literally impossible for anyone here to tell you why you keep having problems letting him go 100%. People having theories, guessing and having speculations won't help you here, only You can help yourself by being honest with yourself.

[Asker]

right ok i dont know why i still like him a little bit am one stupid fuck aren't i

[Asker]

i do hate him honestly ure rught no one knows how much i hate this fucker so awl just go to prefesstional

[NewYorkCity]

I think speaking to a life person who dealt with 100's of cases like your would be a true help to you, this forum is Awesome, but certain things cannot be answered here.

[NewYorkCity]

I wish you Good Luck!

[Asker]

thank you for your advice nd help

[NewYorkCity]

You are very welcome.

[Guy13]

Love hurts and it takes a long time and minute by minute attention to not misthink and jump back in emotionally.

[Asker]

but why can't i be brave to just block him after all the trouble in my life he put me through for the 3 years i was with him and cheated on me for 2 years of it for no reason at all hit me i use to smack him ba k and he would say what you doing threatend me with a weapon he was nice sometimes but there was a lot of argument because of his pathetic attitude towards silly things i know i need to get away and i do hate his guts in a way because he is doing it to this other poor girl who is in a wheelchair she obv getting tuns of money she talk really slow but i still like him why can't i just do it and that would be it over not talk to him again but i would feel sad aswel i dont wanna be sad still talking to him gets me upset because of his let downs and lies am so stupid am just to confused

[Guy13]

You should make an appointment with counselor and work through these things. I am not qualified for it.

[Asker]

yeah u think i should speak to someone about it cause it really is to confusing for me to be able to do it ma head is rolling everywhere so many things going on in my head with this i dont know wich one to pluck out first to fix maybe someone would be able to help more thank you for your advice 👍

[Guy13]

Sure and be safe. Counselor will help.

[Asker]

thank you very much ure a great guy thanks my friend

[kylee2437]

Ugh your English is atrocious and it’s so hard to read

[Asker]

your attitude it atrocious saying that behing a phone wish i could see you saying it to my face nd see what happens your just being a shit bag acting smart behind a phone where you can't see me

[kylee2437]

Lmfao how ghetto.

[Asker]

haha how ghetto stop being a shit bag nd being cheeky when you can't see me to say it av not got time to argue over a pathetic person like you getting smart behind her phone like a pussy so go away

[kylee2437]

You are the only one arguing here lmfao

[Asker]

no u are being nasty and saying that and am inly prooving a point that you are being nasty behind your phone am not arguing am just prooving a point so go away

[kylee2437]

🤣 yup says the one throwing insults because I simply said your English is atrocious