Can anyone help me?

[Anonymous]

I need someone to talk to. I feel depressed. My boyfriend left me and doesn't answer to me. I don't have anyone to talk about my situation.

[RowenaRavenclaw]

Have you ever considered talking to a professional? Such as a therapist or a psychologist? I know that I’ve found that helpful in various situations in my life, and someone like that is definitely more equipped to help you and give you better advice than other random people who aren’t trained. Hopefully that helps! One thing I can tell you is that it will get better 🩶

[Asker]

Yes I did but I am scared to talk to them like that I dont know... Thank you🤍

[RowenaRavenclaw]

I was afraid too, but I promise that even if it’s hard to talk to someone you don’t know, it will help you in the long run. The advice that a professional gives you will help you with past trauma and it will help you understand the root of the problem so you can avoid feeling depressed in the future in similar situations. And if you still aren’t sure about it, I would say maybe talk to your family or close friends about the situation to get their opinion on it as well

[Asker]

Okay~thank you so much🤍 I am afraid to talk to anyone bc I feel sensitive about those topics and fear of being judged

[RowenaRavenclaw]

As a matter of fact, my therapist told me last week that a lot of people have that same fear of being judged. You can go to a therapist without anyone knowing, and they aren’t allowed to tell anyone. Don’t be afraid, because being afraid is hindering your ability to be helped and to feel better and be happy again. Of course, talking with a friend or a family member has more of a likelihood for judgment, that’s why I originally suggested a therapist. I just hope you seek out someone soon because help sooner is always better!!

[Asker]

Thank you~I will consider it... I have been always keeping it to myself so it affected me.

[RowenaRavenclaw]

I understand. I kept my worries to myself for a while and I think that seems to make it worse. But of course, I’m happy to help 😊

[Anonymous]

To other men who are volunteering..

Remember Lads, : "BANDAGES get thrown in trash, After the Wounds have healed."

[Opinion Owner]

That's a surprise..

Thanks for the MHO

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well it will get better, i imagine its a fresh wound, but over time you'll slowly pick yourself back up again.

[Asker]

Yeah but I have been cheated on 2 times already before and now this might be 3rd so I am hurt.

[ChicoFromThe305]

That truly does suck anon but I think it's important to be able to read red flags better to avoid falling into the same traps when it comes to deceitful men.

[Anonymous]

Talk to one of the guys who you have in the friend zone. Or a therapist who gets paid by the hour to listen to your life story.

[In_Trance]

Time for a therapist