Hi Everyone I just have a question to ask well the story is very messed up. I have known my best friend since the age of 18 and I’m now 29 and he’s 28 turning 29 thing is that he’s never really reciprocated feelings back I asked him if he’s liked me in the past and he answered yes when I asked him why he didn’t tell me back than his response was he was too shy. That seems to be a problem with loads of guys I’m around. Anyways yeah I thought I had lost feelings for him but clearly not as they have returned which seems to be a case happening often it lasted for several months as I started talking to another boy called Blaze. Now Blaze is a guy that lives closer to me and is a lot more confident and not shy which I like but I guess I liked him to and started to feel jealousy with him being around girls so guessing this would happen I fell out with Blaze in a huge argument. As for Danny I realised that I will always be second best to him and now have developed feelings for Blaze even though we aren’t talking.
A new Problem has arised for me yesterday this other lad called Jay had asked me out on a date and yet I don’t know how I feel about it as I still have feelings for Blaze I’m soo lost and confused. Yes I have given time to myself to focus on I’m a socially anxious person so I really don’t understand. Blaze is out my life for good after we fell out I can’t seem to reconnect with him but still like him immensely.
I just need help and advice and I have no friends to help me with this so any positive and truthful advice is needed.
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Take time out from this or any form of dating to sort your feelings out. You need to come to the realization that trying to date someone who isn't interested or is clearly incompatible with you is a waste of time.
To be honest I’ve never had a boyfriend I’ve never been on dates with boys either so this to me was a first but the situation is it’s wrong timing this seems to be happening a lot now a days that’s what I wanna do I want to meet him causally as just friends nothing more for the time being till I know what I really want but he just wants to date
Then you two aren't compatible. Find someone who is and wants what you want in dating.
Well that’s why I like blaze I’m soo confused right now
I would texted the person who you actually like, and tell them you miss them who knows maybe they want you back too.
I have falling out with a guy who I’ve been in love with for almost two years. We had a pretty big fight, and I never thought we would talk again. But after 3 months I texted him and turns out he missed me too, and we are going to meet tomorrow. So I would say do what’s right for you.
The thing is during our fight I did apologise and say I’m sorry but at the same time he gave me an impression he was into me or something that’s why I couldn’t help but feel jealous I had him on my Snapchat because I don’t like giving my number out now I can’t find him on the app we met on and I can’t re find his Snapchat to talk to him either I think it’s completely over I just don’t know