I need some advice, I love this woman so much and its a classic you dont know what you have until its gone?

[MrMikee]

I was initially going out with my girlfriend for 2.5 years. I ended up breaking up with her because I was unsure if she was the one or not. Anyway being apart of the same friendship circle, we ended up occasionally seeing each other and sleeping together for the next 2.5 years before I asked her out again, to be my girlfriend a couple of months ago. Anyway we were dating for about 3 months and everything seemed to be going okay. Although she did move out 1.5 months ago and we kinda stopped putting in effort. Anyway she went away for a week with her family and came back from the trip and broke up with me. She said she wasn't thinking about this before the trip. She said she thought she would fall back into this magical place. She mentioned she is now unsure about her feelings as well. I have also heard from a friend she wants to find herself becasue she spent the last 2 years wanting me. Anyway I feel lost and confused now. I now know how much she means to me, and I definitely didn't communicate my feelings towards her when we got back together. I definitely could have been a better boyfriend and made her feel wanted. Do you think its too late? Is she looking to move on and find something better? Or do you think she genuinely has lost feelings?

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you have a lot of love and care for your girlfriend, and it's understandable that you're feeling lost and confused right now. It's important to remember that relationships require effort and communication from both parties, and it's important to be honest and open about your feelings and intentions.

It's difficult to say whether it's too late or if your girlfriend is looking to move on. However, it's important to respect her decision and give her the space she needs to figure out her feelings. It may be helpful to have an honest and open conversation with her about your feelings and intentions, and to listen to and understand her perspective as well.

In the meantime, it's important to focus on taking care of yourself and working on any areas of improvement in your own life and relationships. Remember, you deserve to be with someone who loves and values you, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness.

[MrMikee]

Thankyou for the advice

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome

[megabamse]

Do a big romantic thing. Make a big gesture. Go big. Take her out, do something epic. Win her back. Confess your undying love for her. Tell her what a fool you been for not going all In and be all that you can for her. Tell her how gray life is when she's not there, how all the colors shine bright when she's around. Convince her how you want nothing but a lifetime of love and affection with her. Never take her for granted again. Write her love notes, celebrate Evey achievement big and small. She is worth Evey day and every struggle seams so small when she's around. Love her.

[MrMikee]

Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it. Im worried about the timing of it though. Should I give her some space for a month and then do a big romantic gesture?

[megabamse]

"we regret more the things we never did, then the things we have done" it's a interesting saying

[Anonymous]

If you think she is worth fighting for, you just do it.

[MrMikee]

You dont think it will push her away?

[Jdjfjcjj]

You feeling that way cause you don't have any other options

[Guy13]

Flowers to start.

[MrMikee]

Great idea, thankyou

[Guy13]

You are very welcomed and I hope it works itself out as wished for.

[In_Trance]

You've posted this before

[MrMikee]

This is my first ever post

[In_Trance]

On this account