I dont know what to do about my girlfriends past I love her but it kills me to think of the things that she has done?

[Anonymous]

Ill try and explain this the best I can I met this girl about a year ago now my current gf she came from out of town to visit her friend that had just got married her friend sat her up for a date the date just so happened to be my friend I seen my friend the day after he took her out he said he sleept with her I really didn't know to believe him because he stretches the truth a bit so latter that day she asks if I seen him because he wouldn't answer her call or text he told me he was avoiding her because of what happened the night before I told her no and we had a conversation and really hit it off she seemed like a nice girl and not the kind that would have a one night stand well me and her continue talking for the next month and become a couple and a few weeks after I askes about her sexual past she told me she had sex with her ex she dated for 4 years n only done it one time I asked her about her and my friend she said it never happened he was lying I believed her because I knew my friend was a truth stretcher a few weeks after the talk I was hanging with my friends they said they knew her and she was a major slut so I asked her again about her past if she was hiding anything she says no She told me everything so I let it go well I continue hearing things so asked again it starts a huge fight she breaks down and tells me the one night stand happened she had sex with her 4 year bf 20 times and she slept with a 16 year old boy she thought she loved she was 22 how can u sleep with a little kid she claims she was heart broke because her bf cheated and married the girl he leaft her for n she thought if she done itthe little kid would stay around but really how could she get all hot for a little boy I do love her more then anything but she lied to me and then her best friend tells me there's more she just ain't telling me after that she swears tell today that there was nomore should I believe her and how what do I do about her past?

[BlueEyedHipsta]

Just tell her if she doesn't tell the whole truth and if you find out that there is more then you two are over. Don't mess around with liars it just isn't worth it. And although her past sex life is none of your business, if she is willing to tell you then the least she could do is tell the full truth.

What she has done in the past shouldn't be a massive deal for you, as long as she is faithful to you.

[Nicoleceline]

If she can lie to you once, she can lie to you again. No offense to the love of your life but she seems a little psycho... Clearly she is ashamed though because she didn't want you to find out she truly is a slut but at the same time that's a lot of baggage.

[NerdInDenial]

Giver her an ultimatum. Tell her this is her last chance to come clean. Tell her that her past bothers you because of all the rumors from other people. You cannot defend her or let it go when she is hiding things. If she can't come clean about this stuff, what else is she lying about? What else will she lie about in the future?