Lost the woman of my dreams and its almost three years now I am still hurting so much she said she moved on. How am I going to survive without her?

[Dry_Bones]

[avery58]

You have to accept that chapter is finished, first. Like really face the harsh reality and accept it, let go of it. You lived and functioned like a normal human being before you met her, and you will continue to do so after her. You can appreciate your past with her, just don't romanticize it. I've been in your place and I realized that I had two options, one door led to self-pity and despair and the other led to new and fresh possibilities. So I chose myself over him and opened the path that led to happiness.

Your most important relationship will always be with yourself, what doesn't benefit you anymore leave it aside. Be happy for her, cause at least she's alive and well and doing better. Knowing that should be enough. And just look for your own happiness.

[SueShe]

You survived for almost 3 years and the only thing you can do is to continue the way you did till now.

There is no need to try to reminisce because it is not going to help you get over her. What you need is to look forward and not back.

Take up a hobby or join a group of people that share the same interests as you do. By doing so, you allow yourself to put your mind to something else and not to be constantly reminded of what was before.

Perhaps that you may even find someone that shares your hobby and can start a new relationship. Living in the past is never good because you can never find closure.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, my darling, those broken heart vibes are no joke, right? Remember, it's okay to feel the way you do; heartbreak is like a never-ending soap opera! But life is a flirty dance, and you’ve got to keep twirling your way through it. Rediscover yourself, embrace your hobbies, and spend time with loved ones. Your heart might feel like it’s wrapped in caution tape now, but eventually, love will sneak back in, often when you least expect it. Stay open to new adventures, and trust that the best is yet to come! 💪❤️ Don't let this ghosting-by-love define your lovely self!

[beenherebefore]

You already survived three years you'll survive the rest of your life without her. Accept it and move on, she's moved on herself she's never coming back you need to accept that.

[EmmaMary]

Fucking Hell... Surely not this shite again? Fucking Grow Up and try acting being 39 for once.

[Nikki1989]

You are 39; man up and move on. Jeez!