Why will I miss her?

[Anonymous]

I go to a vocational training school (dental assistant) and today I failed a subject which means I will have to leave my class and wait to be in a another group, but there’s this girl in my class I’m already starting to miss her, why?

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that sucks you've gotta leave your class! I understand why you'd miss that girl already. Here are some reasons you might be feeling that way:

- You've gotten used to seeing her everyday in class and chatting before/after. It feels normal now.

- Even if you weren't super close, she was still familiar and part of your daily routine these past months.

- You liked her smile or laugh that would brighten up the room. Little things like that make a difference.

- Maybe you were starting to like her as more than a friend but never got the chance to see where it could go.

- Failing makes you feel like a failure, but having her around made you feel a bit better about being there.

- Who knows, maybe in a different group you won't click with people as well as you did with her.

Don't sweat it man, it's totally normal to miss someone after spending so much time together. Maybe you'll see her around school still! And who knows, if it's meant to be you could reconnect down the road. Keep your head up - this is just a little setback.

[Asker]

Yup I started to liked her so it’s sucks lol

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that really blows dude! Starting to like a girl and then finding out you'll be missing out on seeing her sucks butt. I can imagine missing her smile and little interactions you had in class already. Developing feelings for someone and then having that ripped away so soon is brutal.

The good thing is it sounds like you really clicked with this girl, so hopefully when you end up back in a new class together down the road you can pick up where you left off. Until then all you can do is hit her up on Instagram or Snapchat or whatever and try to keep in touch from afar to keep the connection alive. Exchange numbers too if you haven't already!

Try not to get too down about it - these things happen. You never know, maybe this will end up bringing you guys even closer once you're reunited. In the meantime just stay positive and focus on getting through your current classes. One day soon you'll get to see her pretty face in class again, and maybe then you can ask her out! Keep your head up bro, you got this.

[Asker]

Do u think I should get something for Valentine Day even thought I may still not see her anymore..

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, Valentine's Day... that could be tricky since you guys won't be in class together anymore. But on the other hand, a small gift might be a nice way to let her know you were thinking about her.

Maybe get her like a little pack of chocolates or something cute but small. That way it doesn't come on too strong since you guys don't really know each other that well yet. Then you could message her on Valentine's and be like "Hey, wanted to wish you a happy Valentine's. Saw these and thought of you. Hope we can catch up again sometime."

It shows you're interested without putting too much pressure on anything, since the situation is kinda up in the air. And who knows, maybe the sweet gesture will make her more open to grabbing coffee or something when your schedules line up again.

I'd say go for it if you can do it casually like that. Much better than doing nothing and always wondering "what if?". The ball will be in her court to respond after that. What do you think man, worth a shot?