I miss her. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I think I still have feelings for my ex-wife. So my ex-wife and I got a divorce due to irreconcilable differences. I regertable cheated. We always argued. So we got a divorce mutually. She seemed okay with the divorce and she never really cared. That left us co-parenting. I didn't mind co-parenting and neither did she. It was recently our son's 17th birthday party and I came to support them. However, I saw her boyfriend there too. He was barbecuing and she was in the house icing cupcakes. I entered her house to greet her and I greeted our sons too. I went outside to greet the guy but he really didn't pay me any mind. He was never fond of me, which is understandable. Sometimes I would catch him admiring her beauty and he is so gentle to her and it makes me kind of jealous. What also hurts my heart is that our sons seem to like him. Whenever my sons have basketball games, he would always be there with her cheering on our sons. He is a sports fanatic and he teaches sports, so he knows about sports a lot and even coaches them. I would admit that sometimes I would miss her and I would think about the times we had. I know she isn't going to take me back. Should I tell her I miss her?

[Anonymous]

Are you considering you also start a family from scratch.. I feel like this will really bring you back to happiness as before you also deserve to be happy with your own family. If you value family you still have a chance to marry and have a family and not cheat anymore. You don’t miss your ex wife you miss having a family and your kid around you: see family is sacred that 5 min sex you had with another whore didn’t really do much rather than lose your precious family. Mistakes happen we knew that we are humans so it’s ok you find another women that you can share your life with.


You can try to tell your ex wife I don’t think she will get offended but I think you have below 50% chance she might take you back. Sure you can try and don’t feel ashamed to ask her. If you tell her speak exactly how you feel.. what you wrote here. That you miss her you love her and that you want this family reunited as before with her and your child. If she says no than fuck her.. You tried.


Don’t worry too much

[Opinion Owner]

Oh and don’t mind her current boyfriend. She doesn’t have a child with him atm right. Even though you are divorced from her sharing a child with her you are already a supernova lol. He is a dumb compare to you.. you were once her husband and she has a son with you the son has your DNA. Well yeah he likes her current boyfriend but he is young trust me once he goes 19-20 he will realize.. that his mom boyfriend is just a shuttle bus. And you are the real deal. Try to be cool with your sob also don’t be shamed to share with him your family story about his grandpa and his last name genes. Show him what’s up with your ancestry etc. that’s how kids start to love their parents easily.

[Asker]

Im actually currently seeing and talking to other people. It's kind of hard because he is in the sports industry like myself. I've seen him at various track meets with a school and that's how I figured out he was dating her. I didn't cheat on her in the marriage I cheated during the separation period. That's what kind of finalized it because it's a "solid" ground for divorce where I'm from. I still have respect for their relationship. It's always tension whenever I see him. He treats me like I'm a nobody. I try to be cordial but he doesn't speak to me initially. He dosent bad mouth me or anything like that but I still try to be cool. From what I know and heard is that he is a great man. Im happy for her. My sons speak great things about him. Of course, my kids know that Im the number #1 super dad, but I just wanted to build a relationship with him in the event they get married.

[stratford]

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