My girlfriend of 2 and a half years, is a senior in high-school. I currently graduated, going to college, and on my own. She gets pissed off with me and refuses too talk to me when I go visit my parents. Long story short my parents and her parents got into a small argument which split them and they refuse to talk to eachother anymore. And my girlfriend says I shouldn't be seeing them as often as I do ( which is every Sunday afteroon or holiday) and that I should be with her more. Even though I'm a college student also with a full time job to pay my bills off. She tells me that I should go introduce myself to the rest of her family but she refuses to come see mine which seems unfair to me. And her mom refuses to let her come to my house a see me which I get overprotective mom looking out for her daughter but me and her are smarter than that and are not gonna ruin the futures we set for eachother. But most of are arguments happen on holidays when I want to go visit my family and her too but she just wants me to visit her and her family not mine. And she says I never sacrifice anything for her even tho I transfered colleges to be closer to her, I moved out so she could facetime me more without my parents being there or whatever else, and I changed jobs to be closer to college and her is what she told me. I don't know it all seems unfair on my side but it might not be?
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I would say it is unfair. Her family may have gotten into a fight with yours but that does not mean you can't see your family. And from the sounds of it you don't get to visit your family as often. If a partner doesn't allow you to see your family or anyone else except them, it's a red flag. Leave her before it's too late.
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That’s a teenager anger can’t help much
Wait til her hormones chill down
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Drop her. Bish nuts if she gets mad at you for spending time with the people you know truly.
This is what happens when you date someone who is still in high school 🙄
This is a huge ginormous red flag. Family is very important
Don't waste your time on something that obviously is not working.
Dump her
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