Girl acting different?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been seeing this girl for almost 5 months. Recently she’s been acting different over the phone and in person.

So basically she’s been ignoring me whether she starts the convo first or not mid convo. Convos aren’t dry and she’s usually into it.

I tried to have a serious talk with her and she kind of laughed and said okay and went right back onto her phone.

I’ve noticed recently in the past week she has guys that message her on Snapchat (didn’t happen before to my knowledge bc She’s show me snaps her friends send her and when it disappeared no one else was there)

Spends more time on her phone with me (ie responds right away and puts it away close to her)

About a month ago she thought we were exclusive and I had a ons. She mentioned thinking we were exclusive after I told her about my ons and freaked out, but still wanted to talk. Everything seems fine until about 2 weeks ago when she started ignoring me more it’s about 50/50 now. Anyways she got mad I still had tinder on my phone even though I haven’t used it and I showed her I didn’t. She’s still mad about my ons, and she’s still mad at me bc I have girls that call me randomly at night and message me 24/7.

Anyways I want to ask her to be my girlfriend but it seems like now she’s starting to play mind games and after she laughed at me trying to have a serious conversation where I told her I cared about her I just feel like she doesn’t care and will play me.

Any advice?

[Ksapphire]

She’s not into you by the sound of it. You need to walk away, know the power of walking away. Get more reference experience with other girls approach and do what makes you happy.
you have oneitus at the moment, I advise you go red pill but not black pill. This will benefit you in more ways then imaginable.

[Asker]

So you’re saying that my chance is gone? Also she said she missed me twice already this week, not sure if that was said bc I was pulling away or what

[Ksapphire]

Your chance isn’t gone, her chance is gone.
If you walk away, the girl will be 10 times more attracted to you. But in your case, your game needs to be improved, I would advise you to gain some reference Experiences, there are way better girls out there.
I would even advise you get a mentor even on YouTube, my personal favourite is The 33 secrets .
Good luck

[Asker]

Everything was fine up until this weekend. Where she invited me over for the whole weekend which we spent alone. That’s when I noticed the phone thing.

She got mad after I left bc I didn’t say by (this was right after she laughed at me)

She texted me twice this week she missed me

Scheduled plan for Thursday

But I think it’s time to just cut it off, just feels like a waste of 5 month

[ufcwes]

Yeah but on a Flipnote sometimes girls go through things so if it's been a recent development give it a couple weeks and let's see how things play out if she has another person on her mind or another guy or even a girl nowadays you'll be able to tell don't be possessive sit back and make your move like you're going to play chess I wouldn't rush into breaking up sometimes people go through s*** you don't know if she was molested before you don't know what's up with her life so maybe just to sit down and say hey I want to ask you a question and let her know that you're serious that you're taking this relationship serious now she has something that she wants to get off a chess use welcome to let you know and go from there if you leave everything on the table and every relationship and you don't mess up nothing ever falls back on you you are the king of your domain don't change it it's gotten you this far

[Anonymous]

Definitely need to walk away from this one, by the sounds of it she has many orbiters lined up ready to replace you. Don't cut ties with these other girls your talking to.

[AntiNocturnal]

I didn't need to get past the first couple of paragraphs to know that she is either losing interest or just busy with other things/people. Meet and get to know more women, then you can pick the one who you feel comfortable with and aren't worried like this