My girlfriend is mad at me because I got jealous about her going to hangout with a guy I don't know?

[tacotime21]

I have had bad experiences about seeing a girl and her going to hangout with a guy that I don't know. I get jealous about stuff like that way to easily and I hate that I do. But everytime I think something is going on with them I always end up being right. My girlfriend now thinks that im being controlling when I asked her not to go over there. I know how some guys are and what they want from women. This guy is one that she works with and I found out that he trys to get with every woman that works there. I asked her not to do it because I love and care about her more than anything and I don't wanna see someone hurt her. Now she doesn't know if she want to be with me because of it. I need help on trying to fix things between us.

[EnergyAZ]

Is there any reason this invite to hang out wasn't also extended to you? Dont allow this 'do as I say, not as I do' nonsense. And her labeling you as 'controlling' is passive aggressive BS. If a girl can't understand how her hanging out with dudes her boyfriend is unfamiliar with can be alarming for him, she is clueless.

[tacotime21]

She said that me and him would not get along just because he free up in the "ghetto" when I've gotten along with plenty of people that did

[Angelina703]

I agree with EnergyAZ - it is completely normal for you to be upset. Why does she need to hang out at this guys house and have drinks with him when she has a boyfriend? And you should have been invited as well. Sounds sketchy. She obviously likes the attention this guy is giving her and she may even have a crush on him. Don't feel badly about being mad, I would be furious! She doesn't want to be with YOU because of this? Tell her it's the other way around, that you are seriously questioning the relationship if she follows through with this.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Let's start over. Who is this guy? How long has she known him? How many people are going to this 'hangout'? Where is this hangout going to happen?

And know that your opinion is wrong when you say "I don't wanna see someone hurt her". If she does anything, she will be a willing participant.

[tacotime21]

The guys name is Corey. He wants her to go hangout at his place for some drinks. She has only known him for two weeks.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Corey and who else? Just her?

[kountryga]

hat's tup that she would do that. Me if you were like that to me I wouldn't get mad it's she wants attention. She feels like she isn't getting enough attention.

[chuckyegg]

Tell her straight was this guy really wants (unless he's gay), and tell her that if she goes over there, then this relationship isn't working.

Or something along those lines.

[chuckyegg]

With recent revelations in my life, it turns out your girlfriend is cheating on you, emotionally or physically, it's still cheating. Dump her.

My ex did the same.

[Tractorbeam]

If he had nothing to hide, he wouldn't just be inviting your girlfriend. You would be welcome too.

[Socal1]

What a mess. I'm torn, I agree with Anonymous and yadda.

[Anonymous]

She's a hoe.