I used to have a lot of platonic guy friends, but lost them all as their gfs didn't like having me around. If I wanted to sleep with him I would have done so well before she was on the scene! Anyways bc I care about my guy friends I left them alone. Being in their lives would have only caused issues in their relationships. Most are married now. Wish them all the best. Women are sometimes just the jealous type, but I promised myself should the shoe be on the other foot one day, I don't think I'll be jealous of my bfs female platonic friends. I have a pretty healthy self esteem, so I guess time will tell
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It's his lost. Your not the problem, him screwing her is and she snaked her claws into him. Let him go since he done so willingly. Not worth the hurt. That's why you don't date strangers. But he wanted a stranger so there he goes. Lost a friend and a good friendship. You deserve better.
A friend is a friend & in this case maybe you should take a little step back & a little timeout & honor his girlfriend’s wishes. On the other hand your friend should have a say in the matter & not let his warden of a girlfriend control him. If the role was reversed & your friend & you were a couple & he had a close female friend what would you do? Do you have feelings for this guy? I thought so. Be a good friend & give him a little space for the time being.
😏 This not important, im meet more woman in me life so only 5 im choice for some closed. After break with frist boyfriend she be crazy, and try terorism me. Im feel as angel with big wings after im single. From this im very carry about who let come close to me. Rather im alone as be unhappy again. Yes wait at one woman so she for she im maybe only toy. Im not intersant about this, is she choice. So be happy and not stress. 😏🌄
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Even being platonic how much are you involved in his life or daily routine does matter... so may be you are getting too much involved with this guy and tats y his girlfriend not liking it... when we are in a relationship we want tat person to share his life imp things only with us and spend more time with us... probably tat guy is not doing tat with his girlfriend n giving more time to you.. so she may have all reason to b jealous..
It sounds like you should just remove yourself from that situation and find yourself a gay friend LOL most women like their gay friends because they don't have that problem LOL just laugh it off sweetie and remove yourself from the situation before it gets worse. It will save you a lot of problems in the future
Sounds like trust issues on her part I wouldn’t put yourself down about it, it’s probably because she’s been hurt so many times that she’s doing that or she’s been cheated on.
Pussy is an extremely powerful thing. Your guy friend is a candy ass for putting up with that, but there's really nothing you can do.
Nah that's your close friend. His girl need to realize y'all grown ups like she need to trust her man more. I ain't losing my friend just cause oh they dont want us to talk to each other.
Same thing happened to me, he was my best friend for a few year and his girlfriend was crazy and took his phone while he was asleep and texted me on his instagram saying that she didn't like me the blocked my account and phone number. It really sucks but there's nothing i can do so i just have to deal with it
That guy obviously wants to fuck you or he wouldn't have stuck around. But that doesn't give his girlfriend the right to assume she can tell him what to do. I'd say he should bust her face a little, teach her her place.
It's more on him than her. She might say shit to him and make demands however at the end of the day he's the one that goes along with it. Accept that he made his choice.
Yes, accept that he's done and be happy you don't have to deal with his crazy girlfriend anymore
She seems controlling. There's nothing you can do. Just accept what she wants, and do that. If your friend isn't willing to change the situation, why should you? Not worth it.
bros before hoes. always. even if you aren't the same gender. i would never leave my friends for some dude. so
Men and women cannot be friends
Yeah... If he loves her, he should pick her over you.
You should. While she is going about it like a control freak, she does have a point, men and women can never be friends, and I can bet my left nut that he masturbates thinking about you every day.
Unfortunately I think you should respect their relationship
You should talk to your boy friend and maybe ignore what she said, he's not her object, and friendship > a new friend's girlfriend
Sounds like possessive control freak. She probably doing something. Or did something projecting her guilt on to him. My ex was like this.
I would.
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