Am I developing feelings for my guy friend but he has a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

He was the one who initiated our friendship and he keeps flirting with me all the time. At first I used to take it as a joke but then since he kept coming on to me so much (I do find him attractive and we have a lot of sexual tension) I think I'm starting to develop feelings for him now I'm not sure though. Like the thought of him being with another girl makes me jealous. And he too gets jealous when other guys flirt with me.

He has tried being intimate with me as well but I didn't encourage him so nothing physically happened between but we were pretty close to it. Apart from this flirting and sexual tension, he keeps complimenting me on my personality too like how he thinks I'm cute, how he loves my laughter, my presence, how I look pretty when I wear dresses, etc.

I had stopped talking to him like 2 months back (because I didn't want to get involved with a guy who has a girlfriend) and he was very upset by that. Now I haven't seen him for 2 weeks and I can't help but miss him. I don't understand what's going on.

[TommyMountainFigure]

If you think with your heart, you'll get hurt badly.
My advice? Think with your head..
Read your question as a third party bystander, and THAN take the same advice you would give them!

[TommyMountainFigure]

*Then

[Asker]

I'm doing exactly what I would tell someone else i. e. I've been ignoring him since the last 2 months since he tried to get intimate with me. Now I can't help how I feel can I? it's his fault in the first place. He was the one coming on to me all the time I'm in this mess cause of him.

[TommyMountainFigure]

No that's true, you can't help how you feel but you know you are doing the right thing. That will make you stronger in time! Just one more thing. You know you aren't alone in having feelings for someone you know you shouldn't. I think most people have at some point in their lives. The reason I know the right thing to do is because I've done so much wrong in the past and seen the light, so to speak!

[Avicenna]

Keep a respectful distance from him until he’s single

[Asker]

that's I've been doing I guess you didn't read that part I have stopped talking to him since the last 2 months that too because he tried to get intimate with me and I didn't want to let that happen BECAUSE I didn't want to get involved with him when he's still with someone else

[Asker]

It's him who started all this in the first place I'm just stuck in this mess now

[bean2k21]

i have no ide

[888theGreat]

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