I had the same situation and I guess it is even more complicated than mentioned before. Somebody noticed that I am crushing on him and informed him. When I went to city where he lives just to visit him as a friend (together with my friend). The first night he did not touched me at all although only 2 of us were in the same bed. When my friend came somehow 3 of us where sleeping in the same bed n following order me, him and the friend. that night he spooned me, the second one we were cuddling face to face like having honeymoonhug next night my friend went back and we had 2 more nights only fr our selves. Then he told me why do I act like ordinary girl if I am not like that and proceed with saying that he looks only at me as a friend. Of course it hurt me but I accepted that and ask him to cuddle me more. He accepted and then i was scatching his back and being really close to him. And he got errection!! next morning he told me that he finished at night... seriously what should I think?
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absolutely no way would a guy spoon a girl he has no romantic feelings for. I have a male best friend that I've known for 20 years, and that's all it is. friends, we don't do anything but hang out together beause we are just friends. so yes he is interested either pursuing a romantic relationshhip with you or wants sex.
I think he is very much interested in you. The only women I have spooned with that I did not like were girls that I brought home from the bar. If I like a girl, I very much want to spoon with her, cuddle with her, and be with her. I would imagine since this thing has been slowly developing, his approach is cautiously optimistic. He is excited about the fact he got to spoon with you and spend the night together, but he doesn't want to hurt you in any way imaginable. You can help him progress the situation by getting touchy feely with him, and that should be enough to arouse him and get him proactive. Otherwise this fella has some moral issues/low sexual drive
Oh, how well I understand this question...I'm the guy in a nearly identical situation...I would have to say he has some degree of feelings toward you. As for the intensity of those, you're on your own. Does he know how you feel about him? If he does, he could be trying to show you he feels similarly. If he doesn't know how you feel about him (like me in regard to my friend), he's likely trying to figure it out by testing the touch barrier and gauging your reaction. Hope I was able to shed some light on the subject.
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Sounds like he wants a f-buddy... that's up to you whether or not you do but I can almost guarantee that's what he wants, it doesn't sound like it would go down the road as a relationship
he either wants a relationship or wants to get sex from you. the rest is up to you though because there's gotta be more to it
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