My crush's girlfriend is jealous of me, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

Been talking to this guy for a while now who I'm really into. He's constantly texting me, and we have great conversations. Sometimes we flirt when were together. He has a girlfriend though, and I've just been informed tonight that she's read out texts and is not happy. He's angry that she could be so jealous as were just mates, but I really like him. He called me up an hour ago crying asking if he could come over, but then texted me saying he was waiting for her. Haven't heard much since. Any advice?

[Anonymous]

personally I'd make him choose. Tell him you like talking to him but that you don't just like him as a friend and that his girl has reason to be upset because she can probably tell that in the conversations. Tell him you don't want to cause problems so you're gonna back off and then if he dumps the girl friend to be with you then good on you but if he doesn't then you know the deal. Stop trying to flirt with him and break them up let it happen on it's own if it's meant to.

my daughter had this happen with a boyfriend...she was you and he ended up breaking up with the other girl and he ended up being all about playing games in the end anyway and the 7 months she dated him was basically a waste of her time. Don't let this be that for you.

[dsc2222]

What I would do personally, is tell him that you don't want your friendship to get in the way of his thing with her. Tell him that you would be willing to meet / talk with her so that she can feel comfortable with your relationship. If you can be kind to her and let her know you don't pose a threat, then hopefully she will relax. If she is really upset, then unfortunately they may break up. Jeaslousy is a poisonous thing and I hope hers doesn't ruin his and yours relationship. I'm sorry I was a little confused about whether or not you said you really do like him as a friend or if you like him as more than a friendship.

[Asker]

I like him as more than a friend, but we are only friends just now. I've met her twice, and I acted normal. It's not like he's cheating, but she's ruining our friendship

[dsc2222]

I'm sorry. It's really up to him to solve this problem. He needs to decide what exactly he wants. I'm not sure there is much else you can do. I wish you luck!

[Anonymous]

Wow this guy is good. He's the bad guy and he's making it seem like it's his girlfriend that's the problem. He's flirting with you and leading you on but he won't leave her.

[Asker]

He see's us as just friends, or at least that's what he's telling me... His actions say different. Yeah, I guess I am being led on as clearly they are having a domestic just now and he's not talking to me

[yoursolutions]

DON"T GET INVOLVED WITH THIS GUY. you will be the one who gets f***ed over in the end. You don't want to get in the love triangle with a guy and his girlfriend it won't end well.

[Anonymous]

I don't blame his girlfriend for being jealous of you because you obviously like him. You honestly sound selfish because you say she's "ruining your friendship with him". You should only remain friends with him if you knew him for a long time. Other than that you should back off from someone else's relationship.