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I’m 23, but people often think I’m 18 or 19. I get why. My face, my body, and how I behave

I don’t mind having a young-looking face, but my body makes me feel like a child. I’m thin (though I have a bit more fat now, so I look “more like a woman”), small waist, medium butt for my weight, and small boobs. I’m petite but not short, I’m 5'5

I’m also not sexy at all. I know I’m not hot. Nothing about how I move, talk, or act feels “sexy"

I also behave younger. The way I speak and my mannerisms, like sitting with my legs swinging if they don’t reach the floor, probably add to that. So I can’t fully blame my appearance

I don’t think I’m ugly; I think I’m pretty (not gorgeous or hot, just pretty). But I don’t feel very “womanly”

I’m not into casual dating or sleeping around. I’ve only been with one guy, and I don’t see more than one person at a time

I just feel like most guys won't take me seriously. The way I approach dating feels kind of “childish”

Could guys keep up? I don’t like bars or alcohol. I prefer coffee shops. And I wouldn’t sleep with anyone until a lot of months have passed

There’s nothing wrong with that, I know, but I can’t help thinking guys see me as not mature enough because of all these things

Coworker is a bit hot and cold so instead I just prioritize my work and myself and go about my day. He seems to kind of match my energy and it’s cool but I don’t understand why if he’s the one hot and cold.

My friend complained to me that we always hook her up with fat or chubby guys. You see, she’s a chubby girl herself and she always expects a hottie or a fitness guy. She asked me who do I think she is. I told her, “An ungrateful brat to you friend that tried to hook you up with a sweet guy. I mean it makes sense that you should stick with your league. No offense but a fit guy wouldn’t want to go out with someone that’s….. overweight. Some might, but get real. Hot guys aren’t always great boyfriends. How would I find a hot or fit guy that likes tall fast girls?”
She complained that mine and our other friend’s boyfriends are good looking. I mean we’re fit and slim.
She said fat guys approach her and fit guys ignore her. Do you think I was wrong?