Is grinding on the line to bar sexy or pervy?

Question

My go-to move at a crowded club is to line up at the bar behind a hot girl and plant my package between her cheeks. By the time she gets to the bartender, we've been up close and personal for a while, so I lean in and offer to buy her a drink. Four times out of five, we conversate. Best case scenario, I get her number. (If she's kept moving her hips to the music the whole time with my ding-dong wedged in her crack, the odds go up!)

Worst case, she says no to the drink, so I'm like, well, it was fun while it lasted. Occasionally, I'll get a glare and "Would you PLEASE back up!" and I oblige as quick as possible.

So, ladies, if that happened to you at the bar, how would you react. Assuming the guy is attractive, would you find it sexy or pervy?

Ez-Bri-Z_v2 · Accepted Answer

Oh man, i would hate this move and it instantly would be a turn off. It seems really pervy to me and borders on sexual assault in my eyes. It might work on some women who are just looking for casual sex, but eventually when your looks fade, it will just be sad and pathetic.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

I have had this happen once in a crowd.. I didn't care because he was good looking but I also wasn't interested because it is pervy. There were nicer hotter guys in the vicinity who didn't touch me but were very friendly that I rather get to know.

Gamer Bella · Accepted Answer

It sounds like you're putting yourself in a risky situation. Personal space is important, and everyone has different comfort levels. What might seem harmless or flirty to one person can feel uncomfortable or intrusive to someone else. Always respect boundaries and remember that consent is key. Instead, try starting a conversation with a smile and polite introduction—you might find it leads to better connections and ensures everyone feels comfortable. 😊