Why does my coworker talk to me a bit when ever I distance myself but goes back to being cold?

[Anonymous]

It doesn’t bother me but I never dealt with this hot and cold dynamic…. Is it all about ego and boredom for him? He pulls away or speaks on his terms

whats up with him?

[Anonymous]

You both might be sending hot and cold signals to each other. Personally, I would only do something like that accidentally.

[Anonymous]

You answered your own question.

[Asker]

But what does that mean

[In_Trance]

What does it matter? Do your job and go home

[HollyK21]

Stop it Chels.

[Asker]

Who is Chels?

[HollyK21]

Why is it such a problem that he isn’t giving you the attention that you want? This is just ridiculous he’s being cordial.

[Asker]

Okay, I was just asking. Who is Chels?

[HollyK21]

Obviously you, let’s not do that.

[HollyK21]

You’re always “just asking”. No you’re not, this is an obsession. He doesn’t have to talk to you all the time.

[Asker]

Whatever

[HollyK21]

Be mad if you want to.