Why’s it that athletic/gym bros have always treated me better than fat men?

[KittygosMeoWW]

Every hot guy I’ve ever dated/fucked has been so much sweeter and provided the best aftercare, as opposed to dating fat men. The fat men were mean and judged my looks more even though I was more conventionally attractive than them.

[desidoll]

Been experiencing this many times, though I know some heavier men who are nice. I think in general, both heavy men and women struggle with some kind of mental health issue and there is a research proving this. Society also treats them differently so they lash out as a defense mechanism to protect themselves from getting bullied.

[FreyaRed]

They are more happy with themselves often they are fall in some kind of self love (Narcissus), while obese guys are always pissed about others because they displace responsibility of their illness on society or other people.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@KittygosMeoWW did they think you were heavy for a woman or something? I am trying to get my head around what you wrote about "fat men you dated judged you" and "despite you looking better than them" - I mean how much better we talking?

[KittygosMeoWW]

I meant they judged me wanting to not sleep with them right away or me eating cleaner and not out as much.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@KittygosMeoWW oh okay. Are you or were you compared to them, thin or hourglass average?

[mysteriousNicholas]

Personally I'd never settle for women for less than I can get - aka personally, I'm fit, and I just date (or would date I mean) fit chicks or chicks who match my BMI body mass index. After all - I may not be able to date up, yet I never date down 😋😆

[KittygosMeoWW]

Well I’m average built not super trim I have a pear shaped body with thicker thighs and an ass.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@KittygosMeoWW at least you could top them easily - "ride em lady" lol 😂

[HawkPerception]

It's just jealousy and envy. They have a certain perspective of the world that every person who's attractive must have a shitty personality and is probably shallow, when in reality taking care of your body just means that you care for your health and appearance.

I've noticed that it's all the weird looking ones that are on the radical left and always hate on gym bros, Trump supporters, or attractive girls. They put them all in the same group.

[ohsheeT]

Hello when's the last time you looked in the mirror they better be treating you good

[KittygosMeoWW]

lol you remember what I look like

[ohsheeT]

Mmm yes

[BruceWayne32123]

Hmmm I’m not sure. I fall into the athletic category so I can’t say how fat men treat women. I would think it would be the other way around since the fat guys don’t get as much attention from girls

[KittygosMeoWW]

I thought so too I even made it a point to be nicer but nope they were assholes

[BruceWayne32123]

Well what are you more attracted to? The athletic gym bro look or heavier guys?

[KittygosMeoWW]

Funny sweet guys

[BruceWayne32123]

That’s a good type to go after

[slatyb]

They take care of themselves and are able to take care of others. The men who don't are unhappy with themselves, likely generally angry, and can't get past it.

[Shiprex]

Gym bros recognise and appreciate effort. Lazy fat and entitled ones judge because they are special and don't need to try.

[itsannalee]

Because maybe you are being rude to fat men, and nice to athletic guys. That’s why they treat you the same way like you treat them.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Nope been nicer to the fat guys because I didn’t want to hurt their feelings actually.

[Nikki1989]

You get treated how you treat others. You were probably nasty to them. I wouldn't want to be nice in that situation either.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Nope been nicer to the fat guys because I didn’t want to hurt their feelings actually.

[SixFootSexy]

Sounds like you just let anybody hit.. for science I'm sure.

[KittygosMeoWW]

I don’t

[jahaims]

The fat guys hate themselves and blame others. Gym bros hate themselves and do something about it.

[Rollingstones84]

What an awful attitude that you're only nice to bigger individuals because you don't want to hurt their feelings as opposed to just treating someone as an individual

[KittygosMeoWW]

I’m a bitch but when I notice someone talks bad about themselves sometimes I’m nicer.

[PeterLegg91]

It's down to jealousy , they get insecure etc cos they know they're not in your league

[sage2021]

The fat guys are envious of you. Poor losers.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Is it that? I thought they’d be nicer

[RHK36]

Sounds like the gym bros you dated simped to get into your pants. Sounds like it worked based on the info you provided.

[Anonymous]

I’ve just started learning about cover narcissist and have experienced the same behavior from fat women
I’m starting to think it all a part of them self sabotage in order to always play the victim as a form of manipulation

[genericname85]

cause fat men don't self love so they project their self hate on you.

[zagor]

I would expect people who overeat to be more self-absorbed and into immediate gratification.

[Pohjolan]

They say nice guys finish last but gym bros kind of don't care about that.

[Anonymous]

What... you are dating fat guys? Why?

[Opinion Owner]

I mean, it''s kind of unusual...

[KittygosMeoWW]

I’m not opposed to a heavier set man

[Opinion Owner]

Strange... unless... are you a heavier set woman?

[KittygosMeoWW]

Not heavy but I don't know it’s more about vibes

[RedInnocent69]

Hmmm, interesting. I’m surprised, honestly