Can men stop telling women that if they ask them out, they're not going to get rejected?

[Anonymous]

Men keep applying that logic to all women. You tell us that men have low standards, so he'll definitely say yes. That's not true. They only mean attractive women. Men aren't different from women when they're being asked out, so stop putting out this narrative that women would have fewer rejections from men. It only applies if you're hot.

[Anonymous]

I don't think there was ever a consensus that was the case. I apparently need a girl to approach me, but I wouldn't willingly accept someone I'm not interested in. I wouldn't ever be intentionally rude of I knew what was going on.

[Twalli]

That's actually not true. Most single guys will say yes to a girl, because if she's even slightly attractive, he'll enjoy that she expressed intent.

[Asker]

They will reject them if they're not attracted to them

[Twalli]

Of course, if he can find nothing attractive in her, but they're more likely to say yes to a girl that is even slightly attractive than a girl is to a guy who is only slightly attractive to her.

[In_Trance]

I think you need to get off the internet for a while

[slatyb]

There will always be awkward sad sacks.